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*Lindy87
writes:I am 23 and he is 25. We have been dating for 5 months casually. We live an hour apart and I always drive to him, he never drives to me. I know all his friends. He knows no one in my life.During the first part of us seeing each other it was agreed that we were exclusive yet nothing serious. So we were only sleeping with each other but not rushing things along at all relationship wise. Taking it slow.This last month he had got WAY closer to me emotionally speaking. It seemed that way anyway. He showered me with compliments, would talk about the future about us (only really talking about this summer, but still...more futuristic then before) and would want to see me way more often then before. Sunday/mondays came the routine and the last five weeks we spent those two days together. He introduces me to people as his girlfriend and isn't afraid to be cute with me in front of his friends.So we were texting last friday (25th of march) and I asked if I'd be seeing him again this sunday. This conversation before this was really flirty and he was being normal and cute. But I got nothing in response. I even sent him a drunk text that night (went out to celebrate the end of the quarter (college)). the text did not say ANYTHING about him not responding. It was merely a "hey i'm drunk, here is to the end of the quarter :)" or something like that. I have not heard from him in 3 days. I haven't attempted to text him either.Please let me know why guys do this. What might be going on. What I should do about this. How to confront him. Thank you.Btw...I am asking dearcupid because my friends are all being super naive with advice saying things like "maybe he just has commitment problems" or "he could have lost his phone" or "perhaps he's in the hospital". SHENANIGANS TO ALL THAT.He is updating and commenting others on facebook. He is not dead. He is fine and he doesn't have a computer at his place so he is using his phone (facebook Mobile).
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (1 September 2011):
LLindy87 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey! I did just that a long time ago (this post is old) and I fb messaged him and yah...turned out that he was 'ending' things but didn't want to tell me.
He now has been dating someone else since then. Cheers!
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 If i were you I'd phone him and ask him outright what the problem is! If he doesn't answer text him saying something like "If you've finished with me, at least have the balls to tell me instead of blanking me!". If he still doesn't get in touch you could leave a message on FB, or just leave it and put it down to experience.Even if he has commitment issues he should be mature enough to tell you that it's over instead of leaving you hanging.I hope this helps. Maybe there is an innocent reason for not getting in touch, but if there is i can't think of what it could be. Good luck.Kahlan.
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