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*i_the_tree
writes:This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!!I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old shop, i developed a major crush on one of the customers, but could never really approach him. We got on well whenever he came in. At the end of my last shift i left a note for my co-workers asking them to tell him that i have this huge crush on him if he they saw him.The manager saw him last week and told him. He said to contact him on facebook. I am thrilled!! However, i have no idea what to say to him in a message!!! I 'poked' him a few days ago, but so far no response. Just want to get to know him first so don't really wanna go in all guns blazing and ask him out straight away. There's a million things i could probably say, but i don't know which one!!!HELP!!!!
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (12 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am so made up right now!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 March 2012):
 Yay! What GREAT news!
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (12 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the question***UPDATE***
Well!!! Still been chatting to my crush and things are getting more flirty and heated. I've found out today that the directors from his current job want to see him this week. He seems to think it might be them offering him a better job up here. If that's the case (and if it's more money than the job in London) then he'll be staying up here!!!! RESULT!!!
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (9 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, have been chatting to him, but I get the feeling he's not massively interested really, even though he hasn't said otherwise. I'm not getting my hopes up...
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (9 March 2012):
I spend 4 hours travelling from home to uni every day. It's time consuming but if I had a nice guy to look forward to seeing, it wouldn't bother me much ;D
Give it a shot! You've come this far.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (8 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I'll just have to see how things go. He hasn't exactly said that nothing would ever happen, so I guess there could still be a possibility! Main thing is we're chatting, which was my question in the first place :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 March 2012):
3 years is a long time when you miss someone you want to be with... but 3 hours is doable 2 times a month easily....
do not cut off your nose to spite your face... leave the options OPEN ....
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (8 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot massively when you think about it, few hours on the train. I've just commited to 3 years at university in Liverpool though
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 March 2012):
how far apart are they?
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (8 March 2012):
fi_the_tree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we did get round to chatting on facebook in the end!! We have a good giggle but nothing could ever happen between us as he is moving to London fairly soon for work (i'm up Liverpool way)
Thanks for your answers guys, take care :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2012):
start with friending him and saying HI
go from there.
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (5 March 2012):
 Hiyaaaa,That is really sweet that you done for him as you made the move first so you should carry on leading! This isn't a bad thing because it shows you're confident and guys love that!You should send him a message on facebook you know asking general questions like name, age, interest. Always find a common interest that you guys both have so you can talk ages about like what kinda movies you like or songs... anything really!Don't be shy just think of him as a friend rather than a crush and it might be easier to talk to him that way and you know once you've talked a lot on facebook maybe get his number and go out on a date once in a while. Hope my advice helps!You can do it! WoooGood luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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