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writes: there is this really pretty girl i fancy. i've only met her once when i saw my mates with her. she is single. i got her phone number. i text her whenever i have a reason. the conversation keeps runnin when i ask her what she's upto, and how's school. she replies happily. but i feel i ask all the questions and looks like i'm desperate to keep it goin. any idea's what i could talk about? we might be meetin on my friends birthday this friday! what do girls really like talkin about?
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reader, hickmanlax44  +, writes (23 July 2008):
ive been talking to a girl but when i ask a question she will reply with a simple answer that i have nothing to leed off of? for exsample "what did you do today??" "notmuch." "did you do anything fun?" "not really."....exc...... i dont want to keep asking dumb questions so its kinda like silence??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): ask her about her mom
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 You gotta find things you can relate too, im talking to a girl atm and for about 4 weeks we have talked at least 4 hours a day, and yesterday we talked for 8 hours on msn then was texting till about 4am, just ask her questions and listen to what she has to say, for example what she wants to do when shes older, what hobbies she has, what her and her friends do, and like 'so what you up2 this weekend?' etc etc, and then tell her things about you, really get to know her, also dont always be serious, have a joke, and a laugh. Hope it all goes well, and good luck on friday :)
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (8 October 2006):
Ask her about her hobbies and take an interest. You never know, you might like the same things. Or if not, get her to talk about her hobbies and you can take an interest in one of them. Another ice breaker is to ask her what her fave films are and music cos you can get talking for hours. Why not ask her out to the cinema just as "friends" at 1st so you can get to know each other. Don't talk about sport unless she likes it cos I'm a girl and if a boy came upto me and taked non-stop about sport I would get well out.Good luck with that.
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reader, CherryVanilli  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 You can ask her about things she's interested in, where she likes to hang out & what does she like to do in general, maybe u share similar things & do some activities together or smthin to get closer, also askin a girl a simple question like "how are you doing?" I believe means a lot to really care about how someone is feeling, also ask her bout her day how was it & stuff like that then maybe she'd feel comfortable talkin to you & start telling you stuff bout her...good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Oh well that would be telling lol!
just genaral stuff pretty much like boys talk exept most girls are talk more about feelings then facts and obviously talk about girlie stuff if there girlie! I think you sound like you're doing well just keep being nice and a bit flirty in a casual way smile listen to her she maybe is just a little nervous cos she knows you like her and doesnt want to say anything stupidyou could try being playful to she'll like that of course you dont look desprate you just being a nice confidant lad, Good Luck xx
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
Ask her what she enjoys doing hobbies etc what films she likes... Your showing you like her already keep up the good work.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (8 October 2006):
 well different things really, your doing fine with the subjects your talking about now as it is important to show an intrest and that what your doing showing an intrest. may be ask about her mom dad how old they are their names any brothers or sisters their ages and names, what shell like to do when she leaves school how long shes been liveing round her you know things that show your paying intrest.
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