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writes: there is this really pretty girl i fancy. i've only met her once when i saw my mates with her. she is single. i got her phone number. i text her whenever i have a reason. the conversation keeps runnin when i ask her what she's upto, and how's school. she replies happily. but i feel i ask all the questions and looks like i'm desperate to keep it goin. any idea's what i could talk about? we might be meetin on my friends birthday this friday! what do girls really like talkin about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): Women are only complicated because men make it that way. A women is sensitive, for the most part, so saying something stupid, harsh, or boyish is just out of the question, with most. Some like it. But women for the most part are willing to put themselves on the back burner to listen to what you have to say. Remember this...be real, be true, be sincere.
As long as you treat them with respect, make them feel special, and as long as she knows without doubt or question that you are being real, there is nothing you cannot talk about with a woman.
Ex: If you think a woman is sexy, you have to tell her, you are sexy, and remember sexy is a combination of decent looks and an awsome personality, not someone you wanna just bang. Get it.
sexy is how every woman wants to feel, and at any given time any woman can be sexy, big, small, not so pretty, pretty, don't matter.
You can make her feel special, by not telling her you have to call her back after you talk to your boys? Hint, a woman will put up with your sh*t potentially the rest of your life, your boys will come and go.
Women are simple to figure out, for men who are willing to be real, and by being real, I mean, telling her how you feel in front of your friends, not being all sweet and sincere to her when your alone, and acting like a jerk when your boys are around.
I could go on and on with this stuff man. Just be yourself, ask her questions about herself, and let her talk, women love a guy that listens, but make sure you listen man, remember, and store the information to wow her later. If she tells you she likes a certain flower, or stuffed animal, make sure on her next birthday, that is what you get her, and do not be wrong.
So Listen, Be Real, Be True, Be Sincere, and if you get there, don't friggin cheat
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): Oh, the usual struggle. I might even consider myself an expert on this area. Just follow the C.A.N rules of talking to girls:C= Compliment her. Girls love a guy that notices things about them. Compliment her earrings, or a shirt that you like. But don't lie. If she shows you something you hate, be polite and just make a teensy little white lie, like," It's like nothing I've ever seen before." You're telling the truth, and boosting her confidence in the progress.A= Ask lots of questions. Lets say she gets a new dog. Ask her what breed, his name, if he knows any tricks, stuff like that. But it's...N= Not about you. Don't say, "Hey, I have a dog just like this." You switch the conversation to yourself. I know its hard, but she want to talk about HER dog, not yours. If she does, GREAT!Just follow those rules and you'll be fine. LoveWiz
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reader, elildogsk8tes  +, writes (6 April 2009):
well ask her something like what do you want to be when you grow up and shell saying somehting like teacher and if she says what about you than she wants to keep talking than you say cop and if she replys back than she still wants to talk to you so just look at that
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I am really sorry for being a party pooper but chances are the poster's already moved on to another girl or is in a relationship with the same girl.Its 2 years since he has posted.Ha Ha.
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reader, Gabetheguy +, writes (28 November 2008):
i had the same problem
for like
a day
then i called her.
that usually works.
if she still gives you the cold shoulder, say "your a waste of my time" and find someone else.
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reader, hickmanlax44 +, writes (23 July 2008):
ive been talking to a girl but when i ask a question she will reply with a simple answer that i have nothing to leed off of? for exsample "what did you do today??" "notmuch." "did you do anything fun?" "not really."....exc...... i dont want to keep asking dumb questions so its kinda like silence??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): ask her about her mom
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 You gotta find things you can relate too, im talking to a girl atm and for about 4 weeks we have talked at least 4 hours a day, and yesterday we talked for 8 hours on msn then was texting till about 4am, just ask her questions and listen to what she has to say, for example what she wants to do when shes older, what hobbies she has, what her and her friends do, and like 'so what you up2 this weekend?' etc etc, and then tell her things about you, really get to know her, also dont always be serious, have a joke, and a laugh. Hope it all goes well, and good luck on friday :)
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (8 October 2006):
Ask her about her hobbies and take an interest. You never know, you might like the same things. Or if not, get her to talk about her hobbies and you can take an interest in one of them. Another ice breaker is to ask her what her fave films are and music cos you can get talking for hours. Why not ask her out to the cinema just as "friends" at 1st so you can get to know each other. Don't talk about sport unless she likes it cos I'm a girl and if a boy came upto me and taked non-stop about sport I would get well out.Good luck with that.
Don't forget people if you want a personal reply you can e-mail me on the site. xx
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reader, CherryVanilli  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 You can ask her about things she's interested in, where she likes to hang out & what does she like to do in general, maybe u share similar things & do some activities together or smthin to get closer, also askin a girl a simple question like "how are you doing?" I believe means a lot to really care about how someone is feeling, also ask her bout her day how was it & stuff like that then maybe she'd feel comfortable talkin to you & start telling you stuff bout her...good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Oh well that would be telling lol!
just genaral stuff pretty much like boys talk exept most girls are talk more about feelings then facts and obviously talk about girlie stuff if there girlie! I think you sound like you're doing well just keep being nice and a bit flirty in a casual way smile listen to her she maybe is just a little nervous cos she knows you like her and doesnt want to say anything stupidyou could try being playful to she'll like that of course you dont look desprate you just being a nice confidant lad, Good Luck xx
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
Ask her what she enjoys doing hobbies etc what films she likes... Your showing you like her already keep up the good work.
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