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writes: hey, last night i watched this film and it really got me thinking about how much people mean to me in my life and i text this girl late at nite (one in the morning) and told her that when she moves from holland back to england im going to give her a big hug and hold her tight and that i care for her. Also on the text sorry for texting so late and that i didn't expect her to text back (and she actually didn't text back). But i said i was texting her because i felt i could only explain what i said to here then otherwise if i had left it till the next morning i wouldn't of said the same thing if people understand what i mean. Anyway thinking about it now i think my emotions got the best of me and im starting to feel i shouldn't of done it. I know that we trust each other lots and lots and we sometimes write to each other. And when i have seen her in person we get along great and we have a laugh. But does anyone think what i did was stupid?... i do fancy her but im not sure if she fanices me. please help and if it was a silly thing to do is there anything i can do to correct it. We are both 16.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): No! It's perfectly normal to say whats in your mind we're guys we all do stupid stuff like that espically when you feel like you love her i've done something like that too so don't feel bad i am also 16 and i go to school at occhs. Just tell her whats in your heart no matter what you think she might think she'll understand i told this girl i masterbate to her picture she said she found that flattering i tell her everything just trust yourself and trust her
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (9 October 2006):
 I don't think it was stupid. I would love to get a text or what not like that from my guy. =) Just because she hasn't responded yet doesn't mean anything. She might be savoring it waiting to respond with the right words. She might not even have had time to check it right away.
And if your chicken cause you don't think you like her you can always pull something like.. "I feel so stupid for sending that text the other night, you probably don't even feel the same way."
And either way she responds you'll still be friends. Best of luck! I'm sure she loved the text. It was very sweet. =)
~Jamie
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reader, uonlyliveonce  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 i know the feeling you send an emotional text late at night then when you wake up in the morning realise you havent received a text back and feel like the stupidest person in the world but dont worry its not end of the world we've all done and you were right to send it because thats how you feel and telling people your feelings is a good thing. why waste time wondering if someone fancies you when you can just tell them how you feel and not waste any time thinking 'what if' she mays still text you back dont worry about it too much and dont go texting her saying you dint mean to send it. leave things as they are and see what happens.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (8 October 2006):
 Although it was sweet to act on impulse and tell someone how you feel, I do wonder if it might have been better said during the day - or by email??? I know it makes me nervous when peoeple text me late at night - I don't even know if I could properly explain why.
Maybe you could follow up with another email or text explaining what triggered the late night text???
I don't think it was stupid at all though, it sounds like a genuine response to how you were feeling, which in fact is really nice.
Good luck with it, maybe she'll text you back?!
Anon2907
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reader, CrimsonConfessions +, writes (8 October 2006):
 I don't think it was stupid at all, it really is best to say how you feel, because then you're not left with loads of "what ifs" at least now the girl knows how you feel, so don't feel stupid! Just try and speak to her about it all
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
Your not stupid. You are just in touch with your emotions and you thought that youd let the girl know and theres nothing wrong with that. I think your quite brave as i am older than you 22 to be exact and i get afraid to tell people how I feel. Dont regret telling her i think you did the right thing.
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