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writes:Debating divorce, what can I expect my life to be like afterwards?!?!?!I haven't been single since I was 16. I've only had one partner. I can cook, clean, pay bills, budget, keep books, fix minor mechanical issues in vehicles, I mow the lawn, weed, eat, build smaller structures and know how to use power tools no problem. I hunt and fish. I'm tall, in shape and keep my hygiene on par. My teeth are white and straight and I don't smoke nor do any drugs. I don't drink much but enjoy going out every once in a while to have a couple. I am pretty laid back, it takes a lot to upset me. I would need to find a place to live, a new job and. New place to keep my horses. I also have 2 dogs. What am I in for????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I've looked into that and tried to pursuade him to use the light. If it were that easy of a fix I would be considering divorce.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (22 May 2016):
OP - you might want to investigate something called "seasonal depression."
You might be amazed to discover what regular doses of full spectrum light might do ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2016): I'm the original poster: I'm contemplating Divorce because my husband doesn't show appreciation. He's verbally abusive 9 months out of the yr. he will not allow me to do anything without getting jealous. I can't even ride my horses or work out at home without him feeling like I'm abandoning him, we've talked about it multiple times. He will not goto counseling. Right now he's trying but I have a feeling he won't change in the long run, so that's why I am contemplating a divorce. If he makes a change I would love to stay with him. But he makes me feel horrible a good portion of the yr. he seems to get worse in the winter.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 May 2016):
 Your life will be what you make off it. Anything could happen really.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (20 May 2016):
I think a much more cogent question would be why are you "contemplating" divorce?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2016): All depends, on what YOU make your life like.
Don't know what part your teeth will play in making a difference though :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy husband and I work together on the same place. I doubt it would work out to stay.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 May 2016):
 Why do you need a new job? Isn't the one you already have going to work out if you are divorced? I would put the job search on hold until you have gotten everything else sorted out, you need an income in order to move. It costs money to furnish a new place, and the rent is more when you have to pay it all by yourself.
You are in for a lot more freedom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2016): You're in for a treat :)
Seriuosly! You'll have the time for what you've never had in your entire life - time to get to know who you really are, what you need and what you want and what you can give to others.
Focus on yourself. You sound mature and responsible and independant, I'd pretty much call that freedom. Use the time to get to know yourself and empower yourself. Are you happy with your work? If not find a way to imrpofve your CV. The same goes even if you say yes, there's always room for progress. Is there anything that you wanted to do but never got around to it? Do it! Eat healthy, exercise (with what you said abiout your lifestyle I don't think it will be a problem). Enjoy life, see your friends and family, spend quality time with them.
Be of open mind and heart.
Now, I wouldn't be suprized if men went after you. At least some men not the whole town ;) Be very very picky and put yourself first. You sound as if you're not afraid of being alone and as someone who is noyt clingy. Good for you. It'll give you more energy and time to meet someone you will really like.
There's nothing wrong in exploring your sexual side and being with men in that sense, just make sure that they know from the start what you want. Hold the reins firmly in your hands.
You'll olve it :)
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