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writes:Hi cupid friend! I will really appreciate if you all can find the solution to my problem and it goes... There is this guy i love and he really love me too, but the problem is that he complain how big my breast is. Please help me, what should i take or what should i do to reduce the size of my breast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): Your boyfriend is completely insensitive. Do not reduce your breasts for a guy that probably won't even last. I'm a 30FF and one of my exes complained that my breasts were too big for my body. I slapped him with my boob and took off! Never looked back! I'm now with a guy who loves big breasts and absolutely loves my body! You will find another guy who will love you and treat you the way you deserve. Tell your boyfriend to go find a flat chested girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): He should love your body the way it is and accept you. Do not change anything for him at all. I find him disrespectful, objectifying, and superficial. He has no right. Stay who you are ... thats who the world loves :)
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 As usual, "chigirl" and "eyeswideopen" are right on the mark.
DON'T do it, not for him and not even for you unless you have sound medical reasons so to do.
ALL operations carry a degree of risk and breast reduction is by far more risky than augmentation. You may also lose feeling in your breasts, particilarly your nipple area, so much of your playtime fun will disappear!
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reader, Odds  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 While I don't agree with the method suggested, I second the female advisors' opinion below on respecting your own body. Changing your clothes or hairstyle for a man might be acceptable, but major physical changes should be entirely your own decision.
That said, if you want to reduce your breast size for yourself (... why I don't know, hopefully only for health reasons), besides surgery, losing weight in general may result in decreased breasts size, depending on your natural hormone balance. If you're already skinny to begin with, you may simply have a hormone level that gives you big ones no matter what you do.
If you can afford to lose weight (that is, if you are already overweight, rather than simply not being skinny "enough"), diet and exercise. One I've found that works is to replace all grain intake (including corn syrup and alcohol other than wine) with vegetables, fruit, or meat, five days a week (I get two "cheat" days). Talk to your doctor or nutritionist before you do that, though.
Of course, there's always the chance that he's joking. Double-check on that before you do anything.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (14 April 2011):
 You're willing to reduce your breasts for a guy? Don't.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (14 April 2011):
This is what I say. Do YOU like YOUR breasts? If YOU like them, they are YOUR breasts, not his. If he does not like YOUR breasts he can piss off. Now, there are breast reduction surgeries available (I'm not sure about Nigeria) but you should not do this unless YOUR breasts are causing YOU pain. Lastly, there are many men in the world that enjoy large breasts (I do!, no disrespect meant) and if your BF does not like YOUR breasts then you should kick his a** to the curb and go get a man that likes them.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 April 2011):
 A female reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2011):
Complain about how small his penis is, that ought to shut him up. Your breasts are not the issue, he is."
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LMAO!! I totally agree with this!!!! WHAT A complete ASSHAT your BF is.
Think about this, after you get your breast done, maybe your nose is too big for him, or your chin, your but, your ............ Don't change for a man. CERTAINLY do go under the knife for some prick.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 If you do not have a medical problem with your breasts, such as them being so big that it hurts your back, then ask your man to please respect your body more. You are who you are, not some sculpture for him to complain about and make changes to!
Respect yourself a bit more as well. Your breasts are your breasts, if he doesn't like them he needs to get used to it, or go elsewhere. End of story.
Perhaps next time your boyfriend asks, if he's actually sincere and not just playing you, what he suggests you do. He's the one with the problem after all, so he should be the one to come up with the solution.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Complain about how small his penis is, that ought to shut him up. Your breasts are not the issue, he is.
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