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writes:Hi cupidI am ashamed of myself. Last night, I ended up sleeping with my ex. She called me crying a lot as her brother was hit by a car in Australia. I helped her over the phone and she was crying so much that I went to her place. After she calmed down, she asked me if I want to kiss her and I said it's a bad idea and we will end up in bed. She didn't care and kissed me. I kissed a bit and Icould feel my heart isn't here.I did it partially maybe I wanted to please her and happy.We both are single n recently we broke up few months ago. Now I can't stop feeling bad about myself!!!Now the way she talks, it's like she thinks we are together again but I'm over her . I don't like anyone but I think we had lots of problems in past n it won't work. Please help!! Should I keep on pretending? What should I do ?
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (26 May 2013):
Be honest with yourself. You do not want to be with her. Tell her it was good last night but we are NOT back together. You were trying to be a friend and you crossed the line. Tell her your sorry.
You seem like a nice young man. Ask yourself this question would you want a girl to be with you because of guilt pity or shame? Wouldn't you want someone to be with you because your stomach does flip flaps, or butterflies or just the thought of them brings a smile to your face.
Delete her number and have no communication with her again. It's tough but there will be no confusion on your part or hers
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (26 May 2013):
There's no reason to pretend. You never mislead her so you don't need to feel guilty unless you don't be honest with her and tell her that the two of you broke up for a reason and you don't think bit makes any sense to start seeing each other again.
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