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What can I do to have better orgasms?

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Question - (28 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

When i sleep with my girl she gets this fullfilling orgasm HUGE BLAST of an Orgasm!!! and she even had a liquid come out of her too. she starts screaming very hard. and i ask her if it pleasurable and she said yes but i am afraid to tell her that i dont feel so pleased. what i feel when i get an orgasm is like a little urge to go pee but its like little pleasure and thats it. ive tried everything doctors has recomended me. and still no effect.

Now i am having these web searches if women Orgasm are more pleasurable than mens.

I feel depressed of the results i have found that women Orgasm are 10x more stimulating and can go fro 10 to 20 succesive contraptions and there is a article that has shown that women orgasms can kill men. meanin i have a little orgasm and it last 1 second while my girl is having great pleasure! and it is all adding up to my depression, and still i dont tell my girl about it because i yust want the best for her.

Ive went to every doctors office and Physological doctor and still i have this depression.

What should i do? anything that you can think off please say it.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (29 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntOne more note here. After providing your partner the "great pleasure" mentioned, ask her to suck you off if she is willing. If you have not experienced this ultimate kind of release, it may be the passage to a new sexual realm for you. If that does not help relieve depression, I cannot think of anything else that would except hitting a $20 million lotto.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (28 August 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHow are your orgasms when you masturbate? Do you masturbate? Have you ever had a 'good' orgasm?

I agree with DoubleM that this sounds very unusual. I think you may need to find a really good urologist and have a frank and open discussion with him about this problem. I don't have any other advice to provide, sorry.

Good luck!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (28 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntThis situation as described seems very unusual to me. You do not even reveal if you ejaculate. A "little urge to go pee" is hardly a normal release for a man. If you are a healthy dude, then any lack of the ability to finish is certainly suspect and possibly due to a medical problem. While it is very true that some women experience multiple orgasms if their partner is experienced, we men usually have to settle for just one big one. In my opinion, it's usually worth it, and we do not mind giving our women waves of pleasure.

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