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writes:I'm in a 6year lesbian relationship and I have an 8yr old from a previous relationship... we also have a 7month which we conceived with infertiltiy treatment... I love being a family but I'm bored and my feeling are not as strong as before.. what can I do to feel a spark and passion again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): I'm amazed.... you're bored!!! are you the one at home all day? Do 7 month olds are tiring exactly what's happening in your life?
To get a spark back into your relationship you need to 'rub' together. Make your partenr feel valued, wanted, special. It's amazing how we take each other for granted after a few years.
You get out what you put in mate. Talk to your partner no doubt they are missing that spark too. Work toether to get the spark.
Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
Start talking to her again. Ask yoourself why you're bored. To be fair, you have a child and a young baby, so that might be putting strain on your relationship. Maybe send your kids away with relatives for some time, and just get to know each other and spend time on each other again.
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