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writes:hi i have a bf that i have been with for about 2 and a half months.we hug all the time and have only kissed once!do you think he wants to do more, example, get off with me, do sexual things etc?cos he doesnt try anything like that. he doesnt touch me in private places or anything so im really hoping i have a really good guy! that actually respects me!what do you think?i have a second question. he doesnt seem to like any other girl apart from me. i mean he never looks at girls bums or boobs etc. he doesnt even look at mine either! well actually i think he does when im not looking very occasionally!does this mean he is gay or what?
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reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Yeah! :D it really seems like he respects you! you got a real good guy here. Its good that things are moving slowly between you 2.but if u really wanna kiss him again, y dont u call his name, look him in the eyes and kiss him. it will be unexpected, but why not? you 2 are dating and if u have kissed before then he'll feel comfortable with it.maybe he reli reli wants to kiss you again and wants more but i guess he is too shy to make the first move. So you gotta do it. Once you 2 are more serious, i'm sure he'll open up more.its cute. consider yourself lucky to have a great guy who has so much respect for u!oh and he's not gay! he has you.. why wud he want 2 look at other girls?! i am so sure he looks at you when u dont realise it hehe. :P have a long happy relationship! xxx
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reader, Wotan  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Sounds to me like you have a guy who respects you and is the typical "nice guy" kinda person.
That usually includes being shy and afraid to offend the person they're with/interested in, and that seems to be the case here. If you wanted to take the relationship further, then take the initiative. I wouldn't say to neccesarily avoid talk of sexual relations, but I do recommend that you wait until you're ready for sure before bringing it up.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 He's not gay at all and it looks like he DOES respect you. You are both very young and he's enjoying your company and getting to know you, it's only been just over two months after all so your relationship is still very new. Don't put pressure on him regarding sex, this will come naturally once you've been together much longer. Concentrate and get to know him, his likes and his dislikes, what makes him tick, what's his favourite food, his favourite holiday etc.
You could even try giving him a kiss and taking the initiative, there's nothing wrong with that and I'm sure he'd happily respond.
Take your time and just have fun together, the rest will follow in time.
Eve
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 March 2007):
 Hi there,
It sounds to me like you have a guy who respects you a lot. I don't think the guy is GAY, I think he might have some tact. Not all guys have to stare at girls racks just to prove that they're straight. It seems like he's a nice guy who actually respects you! Fabulous!
If you want to take things further, go ahead and make a move! You kiss him! He's probably afraid to push you father than you want to go. If you want to take things further, it's up to you to do so.
Good luck, sweetness. Sounds like you have a keeper.
xxIndia
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