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writes:can anyone help my husband left me two weeks ago saying he didnt no what he wonts anymore and when i asked he said he didnt wont to come home i have tryed every thing i can am not prapered to throw eleven years of my life away help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): More info needed. Once a person has decided they want to go then there isn't much anyone can do to stop them. Sorry, but what is this all about? Have you been arguing a lot, any deceit in the relationship. Try and put together a bit more info and maybe we can help. If it is over then you will get back on your feet, i did after 11 years. You may have to walk away and put it down to experience but never think of it as throwing it away. Tell me more....
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 March 2007):
 There's always two sides to a story and you aren't even giving us your side. Why does he want out? What is causing him to feel this way and why doesn't he want to come home? What is so bad that he wants to stay away? There must be some reason for it? I need more information if you want to fight for him.
Eve
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 I don't know what you can do except to let him go. There's nothing you can say or do that will change his mind. He has to make that decision himself. Pressuring him or begging will probably only make things worse. Try to stay busy and find activities that will allow you to get your mind off of your husband. He may see that you can survive without him and want to come back home. He may not. You need to do what's best for you, and right now that might be to let your husband go. . . even if it seems like you're throwing away eleven years of your life.
Good luck!
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