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We have two kids, we're teenagers and now he says he doesn't love me anymore!

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Question - (5 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

2n a half yrs agao i met this boy on the net we were 16 then and 6 months later we decided to meet things were going really well we both fell in love with each other n i fell pregenant every thing was fine till 7 months ago i found out i was pregnant again n he started goin home all the time coz his mum thought it would be better 4 all of us if he worked up there so he did but since then we have grew futher n further apart i still feel the way about him as i did when we 1st met but now hes tellin me he hasnt loved me properly 4 the last 6 months n it ova i dont believe he dont love me at all we got two kids together n i know if he would come bk n woirk down here it could work its his mum causing all our probs he told me the last time he was down he loved me n lookin in his eyes i new he ment it but when i say that to him he says well im a gd lier plz some one help me do any one think he will be back or not its killin me him being away we used to be so happy n still was till he went home we both 18 now its seems a shame to throw it all away plz answer tell me what u think thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007):

if u don't like some one and they love u with all their hart and it was ur cousin like for an exsompal he is so ugly and u hate them and they try to sleep with u and u arnt on eaney thing and not drunk he is not ether and he still wants to sleep with u what is wrong with that imag

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntAw babes. First of all, having two kids early on in life isn't a brilliant start but I'm proud of you for acting so maturely about this. He's probably scared that it's all happening too fast. His Mum probably doesn't want her son being caught up in something like this, silly woman. I havent even met you and I think you are wonderful!

Who cares if he's back or not? Find yourself someone new. Someone resposible and that can handle two kids! With you all the way hun!

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A female reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (5 April 2006):

Honey i can relate to this problem like you my boyfriend did a similar thing to me. What i recommend you do is sit him down and tell him exactly how and what your feeling. Let him no that you think working down there is putting strain on the relationship and that you think his mum his putting him up to all this "i dont love you" stuff.

Tell him that your there for him if he needs to talk about his mum an that you are a family, familys stick together trought the thick an thin. If still he says that he does not love you then maybe you need to think about moveing on with your life, tell him that you still want him to be apart of your childrens lifes an that they need a dad.

It will be tough at first but you sound like a strong mother. If its over dont think about the past think about the future with your two children. They need a mummy too.

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