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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. But, I susspect that he talks to other girls on the phone when he is not talking to me. I also think that he is interchanging text, message too. Which I think is very disrespectful. I confronted him but he denies it, but, I know for sure this is true. What do I do?
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reader, RUSTUPID +, writes (23 July 2007):
In a long distance relationship there is nothing you can do.. he is too far for you to do anything about it. you just have to live your own life where you are and what ever happens with him happens.. it is just one of those things. Dont set your self up for heart ache.. live your life just like he is.. Life is too short to be worring about what he is doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): I too am in a long distance relationship, and I know how hard it is.Question though: what makes you think or suspect this is going on? Is it justified suspicions, or merely fear?My guy and I are absolutely truthful with each other, even if it hurts because that is all you have when you aren't together all the time. Trust and communication is essential or it won't work because you'll always wonder.If it is merely fear that you are basing these questions on, then, you have no choice but to trust him.Good luck to you.
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