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writes:Alright, so I'm wondering what I should do here...I've been friends with benifits with this girl for a while now, we were starting to get pretty close, and I figured we'd be going out soon, but she started doing stuff with other guys (a few of 'em) altely, so for the last week and a half or so I haven't talked to her... Anyways, today she msg's me, asking what's wrong and why I haven't been calling and whatnot, so I just said I was working all week.But then I checked out her Facebook, and apparently now she's in a relationship with some guy... But she's still flirting with me and asking me to call her and whatnot. She's acting like she doesn't have a boyfriend at all, WTF?I'm not too sure what to make of it, but what's your advice?Should I say anything? Should I just ignore her?Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it's more complicated than that.
We ended up agreeing not to "cheat" on each other as she put it, she acted more like we were dating than just FWB.
And she's still acting that same way.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 I couldn't agree more with Collaroy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Sorry buddy if you are really are FWB then there's nothing you should be upset about. Had you guys established that you were just fwb's? Or were you having sex with her assuming she'd fall for you & not look at other guys?
For starters you should talk to her. But tell her you're tired of the FWB's thing cuz she's fooling with other guys & she's in a relationship. Tell her you don't feel comfortable being the "other guy." Just say you want to be friends with her. If you tell her that, odds are you'll find out if she feels anything for you.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Dude, that's what FWB's means. Friends with benefits, no strings, no commitments.
If you are looking for a girlfriend find someone who is not looking for a f*$k buddy.
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