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writes: HiMy brother was telling me about his friend. I know who he is and have been at my brothers place while is there and ran into him etc etc..My brother tells me he is probably messing around on his g/f whom he has been dating for like 6 years and they recently got engaged. I kind of get the same feeling from him as well b/c he goes out every weekend with the guys(which personally for me is not really such a great thing every week--i feel like if you are going out often WITHOUT your s/o--there may be a problem) Here is the other thing--my brother said the g/f saw a girl's number in the phone(and it was a person she didnt want her b/f to be communicating with or seeing or whatever--i think it was an ex) I said to my brother well just b/c its in his phone doesnt mean anything--he then tells me i need to get out of that world where it doesnt mean anything..He also tells me there were about 5 missed calls from her one day when she looked and he called her back. So they are communicating. And he said when his g.f went away--he was caught having dinner with this girl. So to me--yes he has her on the side.But it got me thinking about MY OWN B/F. He told me last year his ex is just a friend and then after i had a hard time over it--he hid it. He receieved a phone call one time in the car and i can tell he looked a little uncomfortable--he told this person i just picked up my g/f etc etc etc. He told me it was a guy named lets say jake..i had a feeling he was lying but let it go..then new years eve of last year came and he gets a text from jake saying happy new year. We spent the weekend together but he did have to leave for like 30 minutes to take care of his friend's pet(which i knew about way ahead of time) but i checked his phone later and he called this jake so they talked and he lied. I called the number and found out it was her. I never told him what i did but from the questions i asked him i think he found out.he put it back and now she is not even in the phone book anymore..but it got me thinking--was he CHEATING? Last year he told me he hasnt spoken to her since the holidays. Was he just lying (even though lying is wrong) so i wouldnt get jealous? He doesnt go out every weekend without me and his phone barely even rings when i am with him.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (15 February 2007):
 This may just be a minor episode. I see nothing to base an entire accusation on so I think in your place I would just sit this one out and watch for anything else that might come up as a red flag. If so then persue it further. If not, forget it. Doc.
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