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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs. now, and we have a child together.. He is also fathering my 4yr old girl.. Hes the only father shes ever known, and hes a really good dad..My problem is this... Before I got with my Bf, my ex husband ( who is my 4 yr.olds dad ) were together for 4 yrs.. He was my first. We ( like i said ) got married,, Well, as soon as i had my daughter, He and I didnt work out together. He ended up cheating on me, and involved with drugs. So, I immidietly divorced him. Well its been three yrs since i heard from him. And now I guess he is engaged to be married next month.. I am really happy with me and my current boyfriends relationship. But why do I feel a bit of jelousy with my ex husband? Is that normal? I want to marry my boyfriend. I just feel that my ex is making a mistake. Am I feeling like this cause He was my first? Is this normal? What do I do? Please someone, help me.....- Confused....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): You are quite natural to feel like this. You were together, had a child and divorced. I know exactly how you feel. I felt like that with my ex when he met someone else. I was on my own with our son. He told me after we had been split for 6 months that he had met someone and i felt awful. Yet it was me who left him, didn't want him. Life was great on our own yet once he told me i just couldn't stop crying, odd, i know, but that is how some people are. I do know how you feel but try to put it to the back of your mind and put everything into you relationship now. This strange feeling will pass and you will become a much stronger person for having grown through it.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Perhaps you feel that if a person who cheated on you and were involved in drugs manages to get married, why can't your current boyfriend marry you... what I'm saying is: maybe you're just jealous of your ex-husband getting married because you really want to get married to your current boyfriend?
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