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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy and started talking we went out a few times he always text me first . And I will text him every once in awhile but he was being shady so I just gave up completely on him I really liked him and I wanted to move on because he's an asshole. So he yesterday he texted me out of the blue asking if I found someone yet? My response was have you ? I did not answer his question because I was talking to a new guy and I did not want him to know. And he replies back yeah kinda. And I replied then why'd did you text me? I was trying my best move on and to forget about this guy but I'm mad and angry because it hurts I would have been fine if he never text me again or if I never heard of from again. I absolutely do not want him nor do I ever want to speak to him again . Do you think he text me that to make me jealous of what? Now I'll just block his phone number so that I'll never have to hear from him again.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (8 July 2015):
 Don't feel bad for cutting him out of your life. Someone who doesn't TREAT you right is not someone you NEED in your life.
It's OK, you DID the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2015): Girl who wrote the post
When he did text me it was just of him badgering me and making me feel guilty for ignoring him. However, do you blame me for ignoring him I have his number blocked. Like I said he will never hear from me again finding a guy who is not immature is hard. I know that I am young and eventuality the hurt will pass. I just want to know why hes like that he was hurt really bad from his ex and He expressed that he was upset with me in the past because I did not text him. He is in the military when I will miss him but as I said he before he will never hear from me again.
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (8 July 2015):
 Hi,
i would have suggested blocking him immediately & you've done that, so that's great! Do not, however, feel tempted, if @ all, to unblock him.
Young men, are most often thinking about casual sex only & there is no possible way, that a man of his age, in this day & age, could be remotely interested in you, in a serious or long-term way.
He is very immature indeed & he simply needs the time to 'grow up' & become a real man & stop texting young women, regarding absolute rubbish.
There may be a number of very mature younger men, however, they are few & far between.
You know your self-worth, you have your pride & your self-respect as a young woman, so do not allow a young man of this low calibre, to persuade you otherwise, nor tease you, play mind games.
Life is surely funny, because when i was your age, i would have thought quite similarly to you, but now that i'm older, wiser, smarter, i can outsmart most, if not all men & most mature/older women can too.
You see, this all comes with maturity/age.
You may not understand just now, as you're still very young, but someday you'll look back & see the sense in it all & yes, it has a lot to do with immaturity.
This young man will eventually 'grow up', but for now, he has a long way to go.
Please keep away from him, no matter what & if you meet another guy like him in the meantime, or down the line, keep your distance from that guy too.
All the best with your future & focus on yourself, first & foremost, as there is plenty of time for relationships in the near future. :-)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (8 July 2015):
You did the right thing in NOT telling him you found someone new (none of his business) and IN blocking his number (there is no point in talking to this shady guy).
I don't think he texted you to make you jealous, but to see if you would "bite" - so when you asked him if he had found someone he just said yes, because he KNEW you weren't interested. He is a immature little BOY, that is all.
Now you can move on. Don't wonder about guys like him, don't let him occupy another second in your thoughts HE isn't worth it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 July 2015):
 nope he was checking to see if you maybe wanted to let him stick it in you... men don't try to make girls jealous for the most part.
young men think with their little head more than their big one.
good for blocking him that's what I would have suggested.
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