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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'm confused about something. About 2 weeks ago, at my high school, he confessed to me that he liked me.when he told me that, I was surprised, shocked and happy. He send me his number on Facebook so we can text. We texted all night about things I like to do. He would ask me a lot of question like if he really wanted to know my whole. When I asked him, why he didn't came up to me and told me that he liked me, he just said he couldn't because he was in a relationship at the time. I remember in my senior I would always caught him staring at me and checking me out a lot but the whole I thought that I had something in my face or something. ( It took him 7 months after we graduated from high school to confess to me he liked me ). So exactly 2 days ago, my high school crush was finally going to meet up and go to his place to watch a movie. While I was walking to the place that we both wanted to meet up, he text me:" I always found you so attractive and you really caught my eye. Plus I love your smile and your amazing ass ! Lol "I immediately started laughing. He is the sweetest guy I ever met. Eventually we met up, and started walking to his place in the night. While we was walking,he was smiling the whole time. So finally we arrive to his place, watch a movie and in the middle of the movie we end up having sex . I really didn't wanted that but it happened. We had sex twice. After having sex I decided to go home because we was both so tired and I remember just waiting for the taxi, we starting hugging and kissing and he keep on telling me I was cute. We both had a moment where we hold hands and started talking about our ex's. Basically he ended his relationship 1 month ago and I got kind of worried. The next day he hasn't text me back. Its been 3 days without any text or anything. What should I do ? What's on his mind ? Did he used me ?
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reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx  +, writes (1 March 2011):
Hi there, it sounds to me as though the guy did like you and probably still does. However, it may be that since he did come out of a relationship only a month ago he may of been on the re-bound and needed someone, and maybe the next day he realized that it was to soon and is trying to cool off.
Though, if you want my honest opinion. I think you should text him today after this message and just tell him that you feel used and hurt by what his done and that you genuinely liked him. Otherwise, he may think that you were okay with being his one night girl. It's true when they say guys aren't mind readers, you have to be blunt and upfront when it comes to these situations otherwise he will never know and probably wont even contact you for a very long time.
I hope it goes well for you!
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