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writes:My SO of about a year is 45. About 2-1/2 years ago, she had a hystorectomy. Our sex life has been pretty tepid, and we were both adventurous before we met. She says her lack of libido is due to her surgery, however I have seen pictures and read emails that verify her libido was just fine post-op. In fact, she even contacted one of these past lovers to 'kidnap her and use her as a slut' since we've been going out. My feeling is she that she likes me in a lot of ways, but probably isn't into me sexually. I've even suggested that to her many times, but she denies that's the case. So, what exactly what do you think is going on here?
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reader, missomac  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Hun, nearly four years ago I had a partial hysterectomy and truthfully my intimate life has never been better. I have had friends who have had total hysterectomies and to my knowledge they have never complained of post-op bedroom issues. I think she is not being totally honest. However, she may be having sexual problems and she is blaming her hysterectomy, meanwhile it could be something else entirely. But, I doubt that since she contacted an ex-lover. My advice is do your best to talk to her again, but ask if there anything you can approve on or if there is something that you do that she would like done more often. However if she still refuses to talk and still contacting ex-lovers I say end the relationship, you seem like a sweet person and you deserve better
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