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My friend doesn't use facebook or her phone. How does she do it?

Q.   I find it very strange that my best friend doesn't have facebook and hardly uses her mobile!? She's 18 so it's werid enough she doesn't have facebook, but the other day i realized she isn't a fan of using her phone either!?? It just is VERY rare of ...

A.   5 June 2011: No of course i agree with you all that facebook isn't that important and many people have social lives without it. I understand that! What i was saying is how does she manage to have a great social life and always be out, when she doesn't use her ... (read in full...)

I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?

Q.   I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...

A.   7 May 2011: Well I'm eighteen and i find myself attracted to guys in their twenties. The reason for this is the same as yours, they know how treat a girl and have this charm and are attractive in so many other ways than the guys our own age! This is why you ... (read in full...)

Am I doomed to be single?

Q.   Hi Im 18 and a little over weight not like fat but a bit bigger and i have these friends that are so much prettier and skinnier than me. we all go out and they get all the attention even the guy i like likes one of them. I just dont know what to ...

A.   23 April 2011: I definitley agree with the female reader comment before mine.... The thing is when you look good you feel great! I know when i have nice clear skin i feel more confident in talking to people because i know i look good in the face... Which... (read in full...)

Is there a way to ask her out when I'm so shy?

Q.   I'm too shy to ask a girl on a date, I'm not really scared of her saying no I'm just too shy to ask her but I really want to be with her. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be able to pluck up the courage to ask her and I don't really want to ...

A.   18 April 2011: No i don't think you should move on, you obviously like her and the next step is to make the move. So many people loose out and don't take the chance because their nerves get in the way which a sad thing really because they'll always wonder what ... (read in full...)

Will we have a 2nd date?

Q.   so im just trying to figure if this date went well. we had alot of conversation, laughed alot.. or he seemed to be smiling alot, joked around. we hung out for a few or more hrs and then when he was leaving he lingered, so i hugged him. before h...

A.   16 April 2011: Honey, he had a good time and most likely does want to go on a second date. But he isn't going to plan it straight away and text you after you suggested going out again. Why? Because you need a little break after having your first date and he would ... (read in full...)

Is it a bad sign if a guy stop talking to you?

Q.   When a guy stops talking to you, is that a bad sign? I've been seeing this guy and i thought things were going pretty good. Suddenly he didn't talk to me for a few days. I just shot him a quick text, he responded, but it wasn't really anything...

A.   13 April 2011: The thing is, you may be thinking that things have been going well... When he in fact may be thinking the opposite. I have been in your situation and i decide if a guy isn't making the effort then why should I!? So i just move on, which is hard ... (read in full...)

We have a special bond, he stares at me, says I'm beautiful and perfect, he's a teacher, does he like me??

Q.   There's a young Canadian teacher in school and he's extremely handsome. We get along very well and always have a good laugh and he knows about my health problems. He's even going to let me go to stay in his house when he has to go back to Canada to ...

A.   29 March 2011: Yes, i am pretty sure this teacher likes you or is just trying to fit in with his students, but more so the fact that yeah he's taken a liking to you. You may not notice that these compliments and his behavior is inappropriate especially the ... (read in full...)

Why does this good looking guy at the gym always stare at me?

Q.   The first day when i was joining my gym i noticed this good looking guy who was behind the staff room door just staring at me, it was off putting because i didn't know why they were or even who this guy was!? I thought nothing of it that time rea...

A.   24 March 2011: "Chris1979topher" ---- Can they lose their job if they get involved with someone who attends their gym? Sorry i'm asking you all these, but seems like you know the answers! haha and also do you guys think i should make the first move with this g... (read in full...)

Why does this good looking guy at the gym always stare at me?

Q.   The first day when i was joining my gym i noticed this good looking guy who was behind the staff room door just staring at me, it was off putting because i didn't know why they were or even who this guy was!? I thought nothing of it that time rea...

A.   23 March 2011: So do you all honestly think he likes me then and is just shy? I spoke to him once but he didn't even look at me, so i assumed that he wasn't interested? And is that true that gym workers can't date the people at the gym!? I didn't know that... (read in full...)

What would cause you to cheat on your partner?

Q.   Women, a question of honesty! Why do women decide to cheat on their men? Plz in detail...

A.   22 March 2011: Let me start off by saying i have never cheated!! And i am not justifying those peoples actions......... But if i put myself in the cheaters shoes i can say that people do it for many reasons. When a couple are married they cheat because they mig... (read in full...)

Once I found out a girl likes me, I lose interest!

Q.   Ive been sorta keeping my eye out for a possible relationship with someone, and lately with some of the girls I've met I feel like they could be worth getting to know more but once I find out that they like me or they say yes to a date I don't seem ...

A.   20 March 2011: This question is very similar to the one a few days ago about a girl moving on from guys to quickly! Have a look because some of the answers are pretty useful and the question relates to you i'd say.......... http://www.dea... (read in full...)

Have I blown it and should I give up on him?

Q.   Hello, A boy in my school - who I like - has been texting me recently.. It started with my friend texting him on my phone saying "Get in my bed" or something like that. When he texted me back, i explained that it wasnt actually me. After this, he...

A.   2 March 2011: DO NOT send anymore pictures to this boy!! tennisstar88 is right, he is using you for his own pleasure. You did the right thing, cut off contact with him because it may turn nasty and he might try blackmailing you if you continue with this any ... (read in full...)

Is alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?

Q.   Is it alright to tell a guy you miss him after meeting up for 3 weeks or so?! Or will it scare him off? We've had a chat about what both of us want. To keep it cool and take thing slowly. But I've found myself thinking about him even more lately coz ...

A.   1 March 2011: I think you should keep it light and tell him you miss him it'll make him happy and flatter his ego. Just be sure that you don't go gushy and sound clingy because then he will be freaked out and may back off more than you want ... (read in full...)

We just kissed and now she's back with her ex!

Q.   i need some advice, right ive really liked this girl for about a year or two now but thing is she has been going out with one of my friends for about a year and before they started going out she liked me but then went out with him instead. Recently ...

A.   1 March 2011: It seems to me that after the break up she needed someone to comfort her or just in fact be there. And hard as it is to hear you happened to be that guy. This girl seems like she knows what she wants, she kissed you and it probably made her realize ... (read in full...)

Was he just playing me? how could he break up so callously?l'

Q.   Hey, I'm confused about something. About 2 weeks ago, at my high school, he confessed to me that he liked me. when he told me that, I was surprised, shocked and happy. He send me his number on Facebook so we can text. We texted all night about ...

A.   1 March 2011: Hi there, it sounds to me as though the guy did like you and probably still does. However, it may be that since he did come out of a relationship only a month ago he may of been on the re-bound and needed someone, and maybe the next day he realized ... (read in full...)

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