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He's hot and he winked at me. Is he into me?

Q.   Well i went on a field trip at an amuesment park today. And this boy i know was on the carousel and my friends and i were watchin him and whispering about him( hes hot) and well he winked at me and he followed me around all day after that. and he ...

A.   9 June 2007: He could be in to you, or he could just be playing up to the attention you're giving him (whispering about him). Remember he's a boy, and he has an ego to feed. ... (read in full...)

How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day? Is she considered easy?

Q.   How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day, the first month, or even after six months of dating a guy. Is she considered easy if she sleeps with him on the first day?...

A.   2 May 2007: I think sleeping with him on the first date is not the ideal scenario, too many one-night stands have proven that most relationships rarely occur from a one-night stand, even if you didn't have a one-night stand in mind, this is the impression that ... (read in full...)

I sort of fancy the younger boy who loves me, but I'm actually in love with someone else! What should I do?

Q.   one of my closest mates has just told me he loved me and the boy who said he loved me is a year younger. i sort of fancy him but im in love with this other boy. what should i do?...

A.   18 April 2007: You're quite young, so you won't want to be settling down anytime soon. How does the boy you love feel about you? Have you got a chance with him? If so, then I'd wait for the guy you love, but if not, then I'd make one guys dreams come true, a... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to ask this girl I like so much, out?

Q.   OK heres the story.... I like this short blonde girl at my school..she is an animal freak like me *no we are not nerds...* But I like her so much it's not even funny and I have not had a true girlfriend before and I'm afraid to ask her out but my ...

A.   16 March 2007: sorry jenna, but i wouldn't say that you're medium popular, and list off your qualities. I'm 14, and If I wanted a guy to ask me out, he would ask me directly, not through my friends, take me to one side, but not when I'm busy, and ask if I wanted ... (read in full...)

Trapped between two people i want but i can only have one!!

Q.   I'm 24 years old, nearly 25 i've been dateing this 16 year old girl who really likes me. I really like her so much. The problem: I've fallin for another girl. When i first arranged to meet this 16 year old girl it went a bit wrong and i didn't tur...

A.   11 February 2007: Firstly, I highly doubt that you're in love with the 16 year old, after only a week. And I wouldn't really call it a relationship with her. Also take into account that the 16 year old's parents would probably also disapprove if they found out abou... (read in full...)

Should I leave my wife for a friend I met years ago when I was at uni?

Q.   I am 33 years old, married for 5 years and have a 5 month old daughter. When I was in Uni, 13 years ago, prior to meeting my wife, I fell in love with a girl that I was in my same class. On the occasion we did flirt, cuddle, kiss etc, but no more ...

A.   23 January 2007: I think possibly having a young daughter is having an effect on your relationship with your wife, and this girl just happens to be there. Why not let someone babysit your daughter whilst you and your wife spend sometime alone? You mention that youve ... (read in full...)

I think my girlfreind is going to dump me after valentines day! What should I do?

Q.   It all started when my girlfriend started texting my mate telling him that she's dumped me and fancies him. And she asked him if he would go out with her. Now I think she fancies him and her mates told me that she's going to dump me after ...

A.   23 January 2007: Has your girlfriend told you that she was texting your mate? I think you should confront her about this, if you haven't already. Do you not think that your mate might have a crush on your girlfriend and wants to split you up, or perhaps you and your ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's brother and might be pregnant! I have no idea what to do!

Q.   Im a 16 yrs old and Im in love with my best friends brother who is 25. Im so scared because I lost my virginity to him. I am freaking out. I think Im pregnant. I cant talk to my mom or dad because it will hurt them that I had sex with a 25 year old. ...

A.   6 January 2007: Not meaning to sound nasty, but it really bugs me when people say 'they'll be really cross with me for having sex with a 25 year old'. If you knew that your parents would disapprove, and you aren't sure that you want it enough to tell them the ... (read in full...)

Am I a lesbian. Please need advice.

Q.   hello i am quite young and i do not know if i am a lesbian or straight i really want to be straight but when i see pictures of naked girls i want to have lesbian sex and things does this mean im a lesbian? please help...

A.   6 January 2007: You are so young at the moment, and quite frankly shouldn't be looking at pictures of naked girls, and many girls your age aren't even interested in boys, never mind girls. I think you need to just enjoy being a child whilst you still can be. ... (read in full...)

I am 14, and showing no signs of puberty. What should I do?

Q.   im 14 years old and show no sign of puberty. what should i do...

A.   29 December 2006: Don't panic. Pleanty of people don't start puberty till later on, especially as you are MALE (note: lena, he's MALE.. any budding breasts wouldn't be a sign of puberty). It's been scientifically proven that boys don't start puberty until later than ... (read in full...)

His response to my text message really freaked me out! What do you think?

Q.   I have a friend who texts me every day and we talk about anything. He's told me that he really likes me before and I told him that I like him too as a friend, but yesterday I sent him a text message saying; " okay I just got to the gym, I'll text ...

A.   29 December 2006: Quite a few of my friends, both girls and boys, tell me they love me in this way all the time. It could just be a new 'thing' he's trying out, or he could have developed feelings for you. As a previous poster suggested.. ask him!!... (read in full...)

What can I do to have a flat stomach?

Q.   I'm a teenage girl who is (i'll be honest!) not very attractive! But i know i'd be much happier with the way i look if i could just lose the weight on my stomach. I'm 5"4 ish and I weigh about 10 stone. I'm not that overweight on the rest of my ...

A.   19 December 2006: I have a lack of will power too, but when I think of eating chocolate, or watching TV instead of going out for a quick run or doing an excersise DVD, i think of over weight people, or of myself when I'm feeling fat, then picture my self with a ... (read in full...)

I can't tell if the guy I fancy is gay or straight! I want to know, but don't want to offend him - advice?

Q.   i have a problem, theres this guy at work who i really fancy, but the problem is i cant tell whether he is gay or not. We are both very touchy feely together, we talk loads and get along really well but i fancy him and want more then that. All his ...

A.   19 December 2006: You have a few options.. you could ask him out on a date, making it clear it's more than that just two friends going out, and that you'd like more. You could ask some of his other friends, see if they know. You could ask him who his ideal celebrit... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant!? I am so worried...please help!

Q.   Am i pregnant? i am 20 years old and have been goin out with my boyfriend of nineteen for six months. We are both virgins and are waiting until we are ready to have sex. however we have messed around a few times, have had oral sex etc. However my ...

A.   11 December 2006: it is possible.. however very small chances. Take a pregnancy test just to be sure.... (read in full...)

How can I get rid of my double chin without surgery?

Q.   dear cupid i would like to know if their is any way to get rid of a double chin without having surgery, im asking this because i need to take a school picture and i dnt want my double chin popping out. ...

A.   4 December 2006: I don't think so.. losing weight is a possibilty but not really in a short space of time. try and impove your posture.. keep your head up and facing forward. Try practicing at home.... (read in full...)

Bras hurt me and I just can't wait to take them off! What can be done?

Q.   i cant wear bras, i tried 4 just a year, it hurts so much, i've even figured out a way to get my bra off with my t-shirt on since it is soooooo painful. it pulls in my chest so i cant breath i doesnt help becuase i have asthma. i have been fitted ...

A.   4 December 2006: I would recommend going back to where you got fitted and ask them to re fit you and not leave the store until you have tried a bra that fits. Ask them if you can just sit in it for a while to see if it fits. Also try a few other stores too, see if ... (read in full...)

I'm torn between them - one is romantic and one is everything else I want!

Q.   I'm torn between two men! The guy I was seeing(Gary) is sweet, romantic, thoughtful, loving and treats me with respect. But he's not good in bed and I find I'm frequently bored with his company. Then I met this other guy (Ed) who's adventurous, ...

A.   14 November 2006: leave them both, it's unfair to both of them. ... (read in full...)

How can I approach this girl on the bus???

Q.   How would i go about approaching this rele cute girl on the bus, i've never talked to her but i see her every wednesday and would rele like to get to know her...

A.   1 November 2006: Just smile at her next time you get on the bus, then maybe sit on the seat behind her. Don't sit next to her.. not when you don't know her, she might feel a bit intimidated. Just smile and say hi. See where things go from there.... (read in full...)

I don't know whats going on

Q.   when i was at a mates party the other night, this woman kept looking and smiling at me (me in particular) and she then pulled me up to dance a lot. i also saw her whispering something to her friend and looking at me, i don't know what she was doi...

A.   28 October 2006: I don't really understand where the help is needed.. Do you like her? Or do you feel intimidated by her persistance? ... (read in full...)

What do you say if a guy calls you a hottie?

Q.   if i guy tells you your hot! whats the best way to compliment him back? ...

A.   16 October 2006: don't tell him you think he's cool, sorry jo_betty_smith but most guys are looking for you to say something complimentary about them again. Something that is more romantic or sexual or whatever. If they think you are hot, then you should call the... (read in full...)

Why do women stay with utter jerks?

Q.   I need advice. What is it that women want with men? I always see girls who are generally nice in personality with guys who are complete jerks not just to other people but to them as well. Yet these girls still stay with them. It's the same ...

A.   24 July 2006: I've been in love with a complete jerk for almost a year now, and I don't know what it is at all why I feel this way about him, but I think that is just it. I think it's because I've grown so used to him treating me badly that when he treats me with ... (read in full...)

Girls - What you opinion on the best kissing techniques?

Q.   GIRLS In your opinion whats the best kissing technique, I no it differs but wat is yours personally?...

A.   21 July 2006: I love it when a boy is hugging me from behind and starts kissing my neck, then slowly he keeps kissing me and I turn my head around to face him, and we kiss and then slowly we french kiss. It's beautiful. Another one that I like is when we're just... (read in full...)

I'm 13.......... and only know one boy!

Q.   Im 13 and I only know 1 boy!Im going out with him but I want to broaden my horizons and meet new people (preferably boys),Its not that i want to cheat or anything its just....Well i want to know more boys as Im beggining to feel trapped only knowing ...

A.   1 July 2006: I found, that if you want something you rarely get it. I want never gets and all. So just be happy being single, go out with your mates, have a dance, and enjoy the ride!!! Your confidence and happiness will start the queues of boys!... (read in full...)

I really like this guy but I am not sure what to do

Q.   There's this guy that I really liked and we started going out but now we've split up. Then he's began going out with this other girl. Who's not my best friend but a friend of mine who's also the most popular girl in the school. But now they've split ...

A.   20 June 2006: I think you're quite insecure as you obviously lack in confidence. You have to go just for it, if you love him no amount of gossip will stop you.... (read in full...)

He's always too busy for me. What should I do?

Q.   hi i am 13 and i dont know where i stand wiv my boyfriend. he doesnt go to the same school, i met him at the park and we both go there every week. recently i keep phoning him and he always says he is busy, then i say what about sunday? monday, ...

A.   8 May 2006: I think you should ask him to go the park because you need to talk about something important, and if he says he's busy, just tell him outright that you're sick of him messing around. Tell him that he either wants to be with your or he doesn't, and ... (read in full...)

We kissed but now that it's happened, he avoids me! What should I do?

Q.   Hiya, I recently french kissed this boy that I've liked for ages, it was my first time. But now that I've done it he seems to be avoiding me. He signs on msn but doesn't engage in any conversation with me, and it feels already that he just wanted m...

A.   3 March 2006: Hiya, just to let you know, that he was still going out with someone when he kissed me. So now, she's calling me a whore and he says that he's done nothing wrong, I asked him, and he said yes. Now I feel really guilty, as I really wanted it to go ... (read in full...)

Our past makes me hesitant to tell him how I feel about him. Should I?

Q.   There is a boy that I like at school, he acts differently around me but we have had a complicated past (long story) and I don't know whether to tell him how I feel because of this. He makes me feel safe and happy whenever I am around him. What do i ...

A.   9 December 2005: It really depends on what the complicated past was. Have you been romantically involved with him? Also a few other pointers you need to think about Is he involved with someone else (romantically)? Does he show any signs of liking you? Are you ... (read in full...)

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