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writes: i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, i am very happy with and we now have children, before i fell pregnant with my first child, a girl at his college txt him on christmas day and also called him three o'clock in the morning about a week before christmas, i have confronted him about this and demanded to know if he was having an affair, he said she was just a friend and that's it but i feel that there is more then what he is telling me. am i being paranoid im not sure, i do trust him now but every now i find myself thinking about it, how can it stop, will i ever just forget about it and move on, what shall i do, please help.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (9 March 2006):
 You ahve only been with your BF a short time, but already you have the responsiblities of children and probably a home to upkeep. This seems quick to me, I only metion it because from what you have said I think your BF may have got a little bit of *cold feet syndrome*.
Sounds like he has been flirting with somebody and this somebody is now chasing him. I could be way off target but I wouldn't be having it, I would not allow my husband to recieve phone calls form an unknown *female friend* on Christmas day OR at three o clock in the morning. I would kick up one hell of a stink!! If it was somebody I knew then it wouldnt be half as bad, but I think you guy is at the very least flirting with somebody.
If she is *just a friend* then you need to insist on meeting her. He will ahve to bring her orund and then at leats when he refuse, which I have no doubt he will, you will know that there is more to it.
My hubby and I have friends of both sexes, I have no problem with this because I have control of the situation and so does he because we BOTH know them.
Tell him it stops. Tell him you want to meet this friend if she is so important she can interrupt your family Christmas day and ring in the wee small hours. Give him an ultimatum, but be prepared to follow it thru.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006): Are they still texting each other or has it happened just once or twice as you mentioned. What makes you feel there is more than what he has been telling you? Maybe they're just friends. Maybe she's interested and your boyfriend...
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