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writes:He's back. -Que dramatic music!-Can I ask a simple question to those of you out there who had their heart broken before?Let's say that you met a guy/girl who you fell head over heels for. You hung out with him/her ALOT and you've kissed quite a few times, but no relationship had developed between you two. Now let's say that your BEST friend had heard that he/she likes to play with people's emotions and is what you'd call a "player", but you continue to hang out with him/her. Then, while hanging out with him/her and a few other friends an uninvited guest (someone you've never met before, a friend of a friend) decided to join in. He/she immediately built a fast friendship with that friend of a friend, you then find out that they've hung out a few times and you feel a little bit jealous. Eventually you feel that he/she is getting bored of you because the conversation seems to get more boring, and their company is unamusing. You text him/her after having a terrible day, and they don't reply which would be highly unlikely for him/her. You text again. Nothing.Months later you're trying to move on, but, face it, you're hooked. Eventually, after a looooong time of recovery it's been 7 months and you're over him/her. You've got a new crush, they like you back and you know a relationship will develope soon.Suddenly, you recieve a text message from your past crush. Every feeling seems to rush over you again like waves on a beach, every guilty pleasure, every tempting memory from back when your dyad was unknown. You surrender to your feelings. They're back. He/she wants to spend more time with you, claiming that they've been waiting for you to talk to them, claiming that they've never recieved a message.You're friends warn you that it's a bad idea, you refuse their advice. It's completely up to you now. Would you see him/her again? Even just as friends (meaning no kissing etc.)?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Lets say your have a cotton top that needs ironing. You plug in your iron and let it heat up to the cotton setting. You then start ironing your top but in one of the tight little corners you make a misjudgement and burn your finger but good. Hurts like a bitch. Would you then go at that same tight little corner, in the exact same fashion, a couple of minutes later?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 No i dont think i would see him again, for the simple fact would be my feelings would just come rushing back stronger than ever and then if he disappeared again i would be left shattered and it would be to late then to develop a relationship with the new guy and i would be left on my own and would be hurting. Being friends with someone if i had feelings for them would just hurt me even more.
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