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lil-angel182
writes:Well heres the deal, me and my long distance bf are on a break, was his idea. He says he still loves me and i still love him but on his profile on bebo he is talkin to all these girls and askin for msn addys and meetin up with an old ex and ignorin my texts. I confronted him about this and he just said its only talk and i havent seen her in ages, i'm not doing anything i still love u and that i told him not to text or phone me which i did but i mean me textin him gives the hint to text back and that he still gots pics of me in his room and stuff and we ended up gettin into an argument though he managed to make me feel like i was the one that caused it and i ended up sayin sorry as usual. I do trust him but not as much as i used to since he said he wanted a break. We both got that angry that we decided we should leave each other for a few days so things calm down i agreed and he said he would phone on Monday.So what do i do should i try to work this out and trust him and not focus on my doubts or what??
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (23 December 2007):
 Are you asking us if you should continue to be strung along until he finds something better and then finally dumps you
or
dump him so you can heal, so you can enjoy life, so that when you meet someone that knows how valuable you are, you will be a healthy woman ready for a relationship with a healthy man
because that's how I read the question
and I think you ought to dump him and move on.
Best wishes.
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (23 December 2007):
lil-angel182 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all the advice, i'm still talkin to him the now but he still hasnt made up his mind what he wants. we had a fight anf he said it over then only last night he foned me asking what we were doing and if we should just wait and see what happens plus he says he's really confused ny all of this!To make things worse he removed all the pics of us and move me to second last in his friends on bebo but the thing is i wrote a letter to him explainin how i feel and sent it that day, wish i hadnt done it now.What should i do, wait and see what happens when he gets the letter or try to move on?
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female
reader, lolo89 +, writes (12 December 2007):
 hi,
it seems to me that this boy is your boyfriend when it suits him.
You need someone thats there a 100% not when they feel like it, don't go back to him the relationship less than you deserve.
move on and look for someone who you can rely on.
Good luck
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (12 December 2007):
 I agree with baby duck, you need to forget about this guy and move on. You are still so young with your whole life ahead of you. As for this guy he is chatting to loads of girls on bebo, meeting up with old flames, and to top it all he is ignoring your texts. Personally i think he is looking for excuses to play away, and ultimately you can do alot better than this. Go out with your friends, let your hair down and have fun, give the relationship thing a break for a while, or until you meet someone who give's you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (12 December 2007):
Time to move on.
You are SO young. You both need a variety of experiences to make you well-rounded adults.
When you do the same thing over and over again, expecting different results, you know what that is? Insanity.
Loving someone is not a reason to stay in an unrewarding, unhealthy relationship. I love a lot of people but some of them I limit my exposure to ... they're negative and suck me into a vortex of doom. I have not written them off, but I don't hang out with them that often, either.
Shed your tears, little lady, and move on. You don't need to be connected to a guy. Hang out with the girls right now and have a breather. Some cutie will catch your eye and you'll be ready for something new.
Best wishes.
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