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Should I try to seduce my brother's wife?

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Question - (10 November 2016) 12 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2016)
A male India age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I'm 19 year old and have a huge crush on my brothers wife she's around 28 and I've been in a relationship with her sister she's 23 and whenever I have sex with her I couldn't stop imagining my sister in law and ejaculate thinking of my sister in law. I don't thing she's interested in me but I really want to have sex with her because I'm not attracted to any girl other than my SIL and also in india relationship are very complex. Should I try to seduce her?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2016):

There is an expression that is used with my circle of friends. It is "when we were young and dumb".

You are 19 years old. You are thinking with your hormones and not with your brain. You are being young and dumb. Trust me, in ten years, you will realize how stupid you were to even think "should I seduce my sister?".

To answer the question "Should I try to seduce her?', the answer is no. NEVER!!! She is your sister-in-law. She is off limits. If you even tried to seduce her, you can damage your relationships with your family and friends. You might even completely destroy your relationship with your family. If you love your family (your brother, parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, est.), you will never even try to seduce her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2016):

No is the answer . Would you like it if your brother was in your shoes and he wanted to seduce your wife without you knowing ! You see what they have and want it yourself so either make a go of it with your girlfriend or be single and stay away from your brothers wife. its wrong on so many levels

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A female reader, Unsuregirl Canada +, writes (11 November 2016):

This is not love (lust), think about respect and love and those feelings will go away, bc when you truly love someone you never want to do things that will harm them emotionally and physically. So in other words start thinking of your family in a loving way and get all this nonsense out of your mind. If you approach your SIL, you will hurt your brother and other family members which will eventually lead to self hurt...I wish you all the best and don't worry you will get over these feelings, just don't act on them.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2016):

There are more than one billion people in India roughly half of which are females and yet you dismiss all those females and fall in love with your SIL. Not very smart is it? My dear young man find yourself another girl to love because I dont think you love SIL's sister either.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (10 November 2016):

Honeypie agony auntWhy ask us?

Ask your brother, it's his wife.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2016):

How would you like it if your wife was having sex with your brother or your dad. Be faithful to your wife.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2016):

Wow, I don't even understand,words will change your morals.think about your brother let alone your girl friend and sister in law.pls grow up and be a person with morals. Get some counseling,this is bcos you have not done a mistake and still in fantasy. Counseling will help you to grow up

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (10 November 2016):

BrownWolf agony aunt

So you would have no problem with someone having sex with your girlfriend? Any man could have sex with her and you would be completely okay with it right?

If the answer is no...then why the hell would you the same thing to your own brother? Sleeping with her would be like sleeping with your own sister...hence the term SISTER IN-LAW.

Plus...do you really want to put your penis in same place as your brother? You might as well have sex with him too.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2016):

N91 agony auntYou seriously need to question your morals if for one second you think this is okay. You're showing massive amounts of disrespect to numerous people.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2016):

In India and everywhere else in the world, you don't get permission to seduce your brother's wife. I know you're 19, but your post is over the top.

Lusting after another man's wife is morally wrong, and many have died for for such stupidity. Keep it to yourself, until it fades away as a bad memory.

Don't you even care that she would be offended to know that's how you feel about her? Do you not care your brother would beat the snot out of you knowing you're after his wife; while your girlfriend would truly be upset to know you think of someone else while you're on top of her?

NO is your answer. Grow-up! You don't just go after whomever you like with no consideration whether it is wrong or immoral. The karma would consumer you like a school of piranha.

Self-control, decency, and a sense of values separates us from lower creatures that crawl on their bellies, hop, or walk on four-legs. Even they respect the boundaries of a mated-pair of animals.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (10 November 2016):

Aunty BimBim agony auntBe logical, if you try to seduce your sister in law and you are not successful what do you think will happen .....

will she tell her sister, your girlfriend? That means your relationship is over (you should end it anyway, but not by cheating).

will she tell her husband, your brother? What will he do, he would be forgiven for giving you a punch on the nose ... will that cause a rift in the family? What will the rest of the family think?

What if you do succeed in seducing her? What if her husband finds out .... he would be forgiven for giving you a punch on the nose ..... and if their marriage fails as a result, who is going to take care of, and support your sister in law. You? A 19 year old youth?

I don't think so. Keep your dick in your pants and your thoughts about your sister where they should be, in your dreams.

Good luck with that!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2016):

Are you crazy?! Short answer : yes you are.

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