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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello :) This girl and I use to be friends since 7th grade and now we are in 9th. We are not friends anymore because we fight constantly and she causes so much drama. I've been waiting for her to be mad at me for I can tell her we will never be friends again and this is why.She lost her virginity at 12 and she always makes fun of me because I am still a virgin and waiting until I'm married. The things she forced me to do with my ex was gross and unnecessary. In 8th grade, I was dating this boy for half the year. One day she grabbed his hand and made him slap my butt. He freaked out and we didn't talk the rest of the day because he thought I was mad at him. Then she grabbed my hair, forced my head down onto his crotch I yelled at her. She told me come on do it with him he's the only boy you'll ever date. I told her over dated 3 other people and she said yeah right and laughed.She's not the brightest crayon in the box. She always copies my answers because we are in a honor class and she got put in there for some reason and never switched out. She talks to me in class all the time and I never finish my work. If we do partner work, she always makes me do it because she has no idea what to do. I try and help her with the work but all she does is mock me and texts. She always brings me down. I can't even tell her who I like without her saying ew or wow you'll never date him. She makes fun of my hair. My hair is thick and curly and she says it looks bad and I need to learn how to do hair. She makes fun of what I wear. My parents aren't rich and I'm not.old enough to get a job so I only have a few shirts and pants. I wear the same outfit once a week and she says its disgusting. I tell her I washed them and she says you're poor you don't have a washer. She has done many more things but this had to be the worst. She was dating this boy that I really liked. She knew I liked him so she forced me to hang out with them and they made out all the time. They broke up in december because she was cheating on him and likes the other guy more but he didn't know. I told him because he was going to ask her out again anyways, last month, I asked her to ask him if he liked me because she said he was over him. As we were walking down the hallway, we saw him and she pushed me into him and said she wants to date you. I said no I don't want to date you and she said oh yes you talk about him all the time. He said since he just got out of a relationship he didn't want to date anyone but maybe in a few months because he thought I was pretty. I got really happy and she got furious. She told me that I just got rejected, that I wasn't pretty and more for her. Every time I talk to a boy she has to interrupt and make fun of me.So last Friday, she told me to tell this boy she liked to ask her out because he was "head over heels" with her. She's so conceded and not to be mean but she isn't pretty. If someone says i look really pretty she said ha no. I'm starting to think that she is jealous of me. Sorry im getting off track. Anways So I asked him and he said uh no I don't like you. She got mad at me and we haven't talked since. I've been so happy without her. My life is so much better.I really want to tell her off but in a nice way and make it clear we will never be friends again. Should I tell her or should I just keep my mouth shut. Thanks :)
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reader, Masterofpuppets +, writes (21 February 2012):
 drop her like A bad habit.. telling her off will only feed
the fire and if it were me I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of showing her that it is possible to sink to her level.. Move on and find better people to hang with
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 February 2012):
 First off, why are you still talking to her? She sounds like a utter troll and you sound like the cowardly lion. Honey, you keep letting her boss you around, so why would she stop? You tell her things and then gets mad when she (in her mind) "help" you out.
STOP talking to her, talk to your teacher about moving seats and partner.
There is no nice way to dump someone friend or BF. And she is NOT a friend.
So 1. stop talking to her.
2. Stop hanging out with her.
3 if she asks why you aren't talking to her any more tell her, I can't be friends with you.
4. grow a backbone, you will need it. It's time for you to stand up for yourself or people will walk ALL over you for the rest of your life.
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reader, BeckySmith101  +, writes (14 February 2012):
in short, what a mega bitch and a half! (exuse my french) I think the next time she tries to make fun of you, throw something back at her like "at least im not a mega whore" that should Hit her hard and just keep it rolling. at some stage she will attempt to put you down bu what you can do is start saying all the things you have put on here. I am about your age and I've had a similar problem a couple of weeks ago. not as bad as this, but all I did was either pretend that i couldn't hear her and if i was walking with a boy and she would push me against him. I just made him smile and said "looks like my over obsessive friend is getting jealous!" that usually makes them smile and will throw her back as well. All in all, just steer clear of her and at the first chance you get, throw her back like an old piece of toilet paper. simple!
hope this helps!
xx
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Just tell her straight, something along the lines of "I'm sick of you treating me like something you stood in. I'm better than that and I don't need friends like you, so stay away from me!"
Confide in trusted teachers if you think she is interfering in your education, they can help too. Surely your school has strategies in place to combat bullying, go and see the Principal
Good luck, you are most definately better off with out a girl like that in your life!!!
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