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How to tell that he LIKES you!

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18 February 2012: Why, hello again little lemon drops! back for more i see???? well, PREPARE TO BE AMAZED (or creeped out... whatever is ok with you.) In this epsiode/article/bathtub/story/bedtime story i shall be amazing you with my wisdom of how to tell if a boy LI...

Kissing. A how-to-guide

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14 February 2012: hello little lemon drops of the earth! there is a possiblilty that SEVERAL of you have not kissed anyone before. (unless your a little bit weird and have made out with a potato :S) so im here to shed some light on your little minds with my ...

My friend is dating an older guy who's a womanizer and it worries me!

Q.   My friend (she is 14) has been daydreaming about a guy that is 4 years older than her (18) we'll call him B and her A. she has only seen him once and talks to him on facebook nearly non-stop. She told me that he has wanted to meet up with her on ...

A.   25 March 2012: Thanks everyone :) and dont beat yourself up ashley, it does!... (read in full...)

I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?

Q.   I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...

A.   25 March 2012: Im sorry for all those comments about you being a dick and yes, you are but i understand why you did it. When a relationship ends, the rebound is anyone who seems intersted in you and you took your pick. She seemed nice and now she isn't looking ... (read in full...)

He's changed and has stopped being so affectionate. How can I start that up again?

Q.   Hiya. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now (well, in 4 days anyway) and at first, it was really nice. I used to be afraid of kissing and he let me get over it. Then for the next month he was really affectionate and paid a lot o...

A.   18 March 2012: i know he is not my future husband, lol. Senior school bf's are never for long. i know that which is why im not surprised at this. I think it's a little harsh about all boys. He was just confused (so he told me)at the time. and because he is (tec... (read in full...)

He's changed and has stopped being so affectionate. How can I start that up again?

Q.   Hiya. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now (well, in 4 days anyway) and at first, it was really nice. I used to be afraid of kissing and he let me get over it. Then for the next month he was really affectionate and paid a lot o...

A.   17 March 2012: ok, We haven't technically gone out on a "date" as such but as I said before, he doesn't want sex anymore. simple. But he definatley knows im his GF and he ISNT going out for sex. I know the steryotypical 15 year old will want it but he isn't like ... (read in full...)

My on/off girlfriend's mom has just died, how much space should I give her? How long will this last?

Q.   My girlfriend/ex girlfriend just lost her mom a week ago. I say ex girlfriend, because she tried to break up with me a day before her mom was admitted to the hospital for pneumonia. That night that her mom was admitted to the hospital she called me ...

A.   16 March 2012: Hunny. you are fine. she is not breaking up with you she just feels like talking to some other people. Its not that she doesn't love you, she loves you so much that she doesn't want to burden you with her problems. I think she is just having a ... (read in full...)

He's changed and has stopped being so affectionate. How can I start that up again?

Q.   Hiya. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now (well, in 4 days anyway) and at first, it was really nice. I used to be afraid of kissing and he let me get over it. Then for the next month he was really affectionate and paid a lot o...

A.   16 March 2012: Ok, look, im not botherd about the sex thing and neither is he. We know its against the law and so on but he thought it would be fun. I know him and your going to have to trust me on this that he doesn't want it anymore. Thanks again for your comm... (read in full...)

He's changed and has stopped being so affectionate. How can I start that up again?

Q.   Hiya. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now (well, in 4 days anyway) and at first, it was really nice. I used to be afraid of kissing and he let me get over it. Then for the next month he was really affectionate and paid a lot o...

A.   14 March 2012: Thanks much. its nice to hear from a guy about this. :)... (read in full...)

Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you?

Q.   This question is for Women, but men are welcome too. Have you ever smelled a perfume that enticed you? ...

A.   11 March 2012: Linx. only a hint of it though. It not very good if it gives you a headache. I don't know why but it really turns me on. Just trust me.... (read in full...)

He doesn't know if he can be my b/f but yet he keeps texting me

Q.   So I'd been seeing this guy for three weeks, known him for a month. We'd seen each other 3 times in this period of time. I finally plucked up the courage yesterday to ask him what was going on between us and he said he wasn't sure what he wanted and ...

A.   11 March 2012: This just means that he isn't ready for a head-on relationship with you. He still wants to be really good friends with you but just doesn't have much attraction with you. I wouldn't take offence. He want's to be one of your closest friends that you ... (read in full...)

Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???

Q.   I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ...

A.   11 March 2012: God she is jealous. Next time she makes you feel bad, point out that she hasn't got enough money to pay for anything and thet you are her only resource. If she still wants you to help her, then she better give you some more respect! So what if you ... (read in full...)

Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???

Q.   I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ...

A.   4 March 2012: You serious? Do you really think that she is worth it? Do you think that moving over 700 miles JUST to be with her was all worth it? your son doesn't like the woman who is hurting you and is trying to help you. she decides he is just being ... (read in full...)

How long do relationships last?

Q.   Simple. how long does an average relationship last? I don't know much about this and I'm curious. it would also be helpful if you knew when a guy might want to break up? I'm not having trouble at the moment with my current bf or anything but I want ...

A.   29 February 2012: thanks to all! love you guys!... (read in full...)

Still grieving over a failed relationship, how do I move on?

Q.   Hi! Any words of wisdom appreciated. I broke up with someone about 3 months ago. He was a friend and former housemate. We always seemed to be more than 'friends' but things were awkward as we lived with another guy who was his friend and who liked ...

A.   28 February 2012: Sorry to hear this hun. I'm afraid there isn't much you can do at the moment. Only time can tell. If you can, have a look at the guys at work and take note of their faces and how they look at you. This helped my friend when she got dumped by her ... (read in full...)

Is he too forward to be taken seriously?

Q.   Dear users, I am new one here, I have a question. I just do not know what to think about mature man who hardly know me, we just wrote 2-3 letters to each other and he calls me "Hello, sweet thing" instead of my name. I find it too familiar. I think ...

A.   28 February 2012: Any time hun xx... (read in full...)

Is he too forward to be taken seriously?

Q.   Dear users, I am new one here, I have a question. I just do not know what to think about mature man who hardly know me, we just wrote 2-3 letters to each other and he calls me "Hello, sweet thing" instead of my name. I find it too familiar. I think ...

A.   25 February 2012: hello dare! He is probably thinking of you as a really great friend right now. He probably has the mature side for work or other buisnessy areas and likes to let his hair down around you. Don't fret over this! its a compliment! But i can see how ... (read in full...)

I've chosen my path- no sex yet. How can I slow him down, and make him not want more?

Q.   Hey again. Recently, me and my boyfriend have practically done everything mouth-to-mouth wise but he wants more.(and i don't mean sex, i mean touching) I've told him that I'm not ready to do it and he said he's ok with waiting, even though I know h...

A.   21 February 2012: sorry, ignore that last one, i misread it. thank you again!... (read in full...)

I've chosen my path- no sex yet. How can I slow him down, and make him not want more?

Q.   Hey again. Recently, me and my boyfriend have practically done everything mouth-to-mouth wise but he wants more.(and i don't mean sex, i mean touching) I've told him that I'm not ready to do it and he said he's ok with waiting, even though I know h...

A.   21 February 2012: please remember i am 14? and yep, still a virgin. Thanks though!... (read in full...)

Kissing. A how-to-guide

Q.   hello little lemon drops of the earth! there is a possiblilty that SEVERAL of you have not kissed anyone before. (unless your a little bit weird and have made out with a potato :S) so im here to shed some light on your little minds with my ...

A.   18 February 2012: Thank you all very much. And thanks for all the improvements. Otherwise, i would be writing crap for the next 10 pieces :P lol. Thnaks again! xx... (read in full...)

What do you write in a valentine card to a boy?

Q.   hi. well, valentines is tommorrow. i have made a card and its all ready to go except for one small thing... I Dont Know What To Write In It!!!! My name is Becky and I'm 14 and he is Rhys and he's 15. Well, he's in year 11 anyway and I'm only year...

A.   15 February 2012: hope you have all the best! It seem's like this rhys is a little shy but you should push yourself forward and try. I hope this helps! xx... (read in full...)

I'm scared. First Date. What do I do? Will he suspect this is my first date?

Q.   ok so lately i've been asking a lot of questions about me and my crush, and thankfully many of you helped me out.. ..so valentines came along and he finally did ask me out. he gave me his number and said that he wants to meet up when i'm bk home on ...

A.   15 February 2012: well, your in a state that i was in around a month ago. its ok for you not to want to see him.i get that everytime i see my boyfriend. So here i am, answering all yuor questions: 1) clothing: If your going to a movie or somewhere inside (NOT DIN... (read in full...)

How can you tell if you're a good kisser?

Q.   hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...

A.   14 February 2012: sorry! wrong question!!! thank you all so much for these commets. just ignore the last one I wrote... (read in full...)

How can you tell if you're a good kisser?

Q.   hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...

A.   14 February 2012: ive written it down now! thank you all so much for the comments and I have come up with this: Whever its valentines day or not, there is noone i would rather spend an entire day with. Happy Valentines Day. does that sound too puchy and lovey do... (read in full...)

Should I tell this mean girl off or just keep my mouth shut?

Q.   Hello :) This girl and I use to be friends since 7th grade and now we are in 9th. We are not friends anymore because we fight constantly and she causes so much drama. I've been waiting for her to be mad at me for I can tell her we will never be...

A.   14 February 2012: in short, what a mega bitch and a half! (exuse my french) I think the next time she tries to make fun of you, throw something back at her like "at least im not a mega whore" that should Hit her hard and just keep it rolling. at some stage she will ... (read in full...)

What do you write in a valentine card to a boy?

Q.   hi. well, valentines is tommorrow. i have made a card and its all ready to go except for one small thing... I Dont Know What To Write In It!!!! My name is Becky and I'm 14 and he is Rhys and he's 15. Well, he's in year 11 anyway and I'm only year...

A.   13 February 2012: thanks all :)... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and have a major crush on a guy. Should I make the first move?

Q.   Okay, I feel like I'm in love with a guy i have barely talked to before. I just see him in passing every once in a while, but all i can do is think about him. I'm just so scared to make a move. What should I do?...

A.   13 February 2012: well, first off, is he older than you? if he is he might hang out with older guys which can be embarrassing. just get to know him a lot better and he should see the fun in you. after a while, try breaking the touch barrier to show that you like him. ... (read in full...)

How can you tell if you're a good kisser?

Q.   hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...

A.   13 February 2012: thanks. But the thing is, like I say, he is the only person I have ever kissed so I don't know what to expect. its not like a break up where you can ask why they broke up with you and If it was because of kissing. nor can I ask him whats wrong with ... (read in full...)

Is it safe to say that I'm probably not his type?

Q.   does it sound like this guy would honestly be interested in me or that I'm his type? his last gf jokes around a lot, talks about things like farting and being fat. She isn't fat but jokes about it. She is quite outgoing and outspoken. He also has a ...

A.   13 February 2012: I would say that no, you arn't really his type BUT thats a good thing!! after his last gf he probably wants a change. if you hang out with him, then see how he treats you to the other girls. He might flirt slightly with you and/or them and decide ... (read in full...)

Long story about a crush that lasted longer than I thought

Q.   Thank you for reading this even after the title. I've been having a crush on this guy for over a year. Shortly after we met he started sending me frequent texts, asking me out, telling me everything about him, etc. Everything that made me think he...

A.   13 February 2012: ooh. toughie. I think that he either likes you but he doesn't know it or doesn't like you at all but is trying hard to push-you-away-but-be-friends-at-the-same-time move. its all a bit complicated. if you really wanted answers, speak to him or your ... (read in full...)

Why is this woman appearing and disappearing from his facebook page?

Q.   I'm not really worried about this, but i'm curious about it. I have been dating someone for a few weeks now. After the night we first met, we kept intouch on facebook. I noticed that a woman had left a comment on his page saying " Hey, still on ...

A.   13 February 2012: your probably over-thinking this but I dont blame you either. If your boyfriend hasn't replied to any of her comments then he hasn't got any feelings for her. she might just be an obsessive ex who is desperate and is trying to make you jealous. Talk ... (read in full...)

I don't want to hurt my friend and like this boy

Q.   my friend was seeing this boy about a year ago and they were very close and pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend but they weren't actually going out. after about half a year this 'relationship' broke off, but they are still very good friends,...

A.   13 February 2012: well, i think that you should do what you think is best. I know all the soppy answers would be that "if she was your freind, she would stick by you 100%" but we all know what happens when you do THAT. so My advice is speak to him and see what he ... (read in full...)

How can you tell if you're a good kisser?

Q.   hiya. Right, this may sound a little awkward and slightly weird but I'm with my 3rd boyfriend and it's only with him that I've kissed. Thing is, i'm afraid to ask him if its ok because I don't know how your supposed to kiss. I think I'v been rea...

A.   13 February 2012: thanks :)... (read in full...)

Wishing everyone on Dear Cupid a very Happy Valentines Day!!

Q.   Happy Valentines Day 2012 I don't have a question... with the time difference I wanted to be the 1st to wish everyone on this site, whether you are a one time visitor or a regular, a very HAPPY VALENTINES DAY this year. If you are married, ...

A.   13 February 2012: aw. happy valentines day to you too. 3... (read in full...)

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