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Should I tell him what she said or not??

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Question - (21 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *darkendhopex writes:

I was on myspace and one of my friends sent me a message that my boy friends ex had written saying that Corey (my bf) was telling her how he loved me but loved her more than me. But when I confronted him about it he just said his cousin was the one texting him telling her that stuff.

I was devestated. So that night I told my good friend Gavin about it , and he wanted to hangout. So I went to his house and we ended up sleeping together.

And I know that it wil never happen again, but should I tell Corey? And should I believe what he said about it not being him telling her that?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (21 February 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

is your age right? you dont sound 26-29.

anyhoo, you are hardly in the position now to demand answers as it didnt take much for you to sleep with another person in revenge.

Perhaps you two would be better off not seeing each other at all, if you truly loved him you wouldnt have gone off with someone else so easily. As for him who knows, but if he really said that he loved his ex more, then now's the time to split up.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (21 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntummm you are 26-29 years old? How come you are living your life like it is still high school?

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A female reader, Serinity United States +, writes (21 February 2008):

Serinity agony auntAt this point I don't think it matters if he's the one who wrote that stuff or not. Actions speak louder than words and you slept with someone else. Should you tell him? Yes, it would be the right thing to do, but are you willing to deal with the concequences of your actions? If I were you I'd drop the whole thing about him texting the other girl because what you did was far worse.

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