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writes:Hey everyone! It's been a long time since i didn't post any questions in here.. fortunately ;) haha... Well, i have a new "problem". ( This is going 2 be a long text! lol ) I fell in love with a guy who's a player.. i guess.. we met each other on my best friend's birthday. And she's his sister. We watched Movies and stuff like that, he was always talking to me and also other girls, but he was really nice to me. There was a time where we looked at each others eyes for a long time,and i gotta say that i had a strange feeling in my tummy..hehe. Yeah since then we've been talking to each other everyday,and her birthday was like 1 month ago.He lives 1 hour away from me and i don't see him as much i'd like to. He calls me like..EVERY SINGLE DAY even if we don't have a lot of things to say..or when he says he calls me tomorrow he still calls me before he goes to sleep.. He says that i should visit him one day.. He always makes me laugh and that's what i love about him.. But yeah anyway.. He said to me that i'm cute and stuff.. but he also talks about other girls and how good some of them look. When he calls me and when i'm with a friend of mine he always wants to talk to them. And it makes me kinda jealous... I know if we dated it'd be complicated cause i wouldn't see him everyday but.. i don't know.. He already had like 5 or 6 girlfriends or something -.- And if i'd tell him i'm in love with him he'd probably feel like he could get all the girls in the world if he'd want to.. What should i do? or what do you think? This is so confusing .. :(
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reader, whatswhat  +, writes (23 January 2011):
The guy I've been dating for three-years was sorta and well you could say still is a player. Unfortunitly i broke his heart for that, but eventually he grew out of it over the yeas. Once he grew older he realize what was missing in life and he eventually came back. Guys mature, I understand you don't have the same relationship that I have with my boyfriend but just keep your distance and he will most definitely come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): Guys like this will break your heart. You are very young so i'm guessing don't have much experience with guys like this.
I know you like him but that's because he is good at what he does. He has a lot of girlfriends and you would be one of many.
It's hard but you need to distance yourself from him a bit because you don't want to be used i'm sure. Guys like him aren't very nice and only say things to get what they want.
Be smart and don't fall for his charms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): im 13 and i think that long distance wont work coz u wont be able to see eachother everyday meaning u wont kno wht he gets up to and him being a plyer than hel probz see girls behind ur bk so if i were u dont do it RED LIPZ XX
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