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Why does she want to speak to me now? Should I just ignore her?

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Question - (26 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

i was really good friends B with a girl a year back. i introduced my very close friend S to B and they became really tight.

S didn't wana hang with me anymore. she stopped calling me, i was always the one making the first move. she is always with B.

B hasn't spoken to me in over a year. it was her birthday and she told S to invite me,...but i told S to tell that she hasn't spoken to me in over a year and invites me to her birthday? am not going.

i had in the past tried speaking to her on facebook but she ignores me completely and chats with S right under my nose. she has my number but i dont have hers cos shes always changing her number.

now B has added me on blackberry messenger. and i know S gave her my pin.

should I accept this girl or ignore her??

thnx..xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010):

Three is always a crowd, so there is always someone bound to be left out. B and S might eventually get sick of one another and so they try to bring you back into the picture. B might want to be friends again, but since she discarded you so easily, it doesn't sound like she wants a meaningful friendship. Just ignore them and hang out with friends who lift you up in life, not bring you down. Hang in there! You sound like a very caring and kind friend!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (27 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntS and B are crap friends..I wouldn't go to her birthday party either, she doesn't deserve a present from you. And what is S doing giving out your private info to S when your not really friends with them anymore? All you did was introduce them to each other and they gave up their friendship with you and are stuck up each others butts. They seem to forget who introduced them, you should have gotten some credit. I would ignore her like she's been ignoring you. And if either says anything frankly you don't have time for their immature games. Get some new friends.

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