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Should I do as my separated husband wishes?

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Question - (27 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I been separated for nearly an year.This guy that Ive been seeing decides to call my husband. His intention was to find out what was going on between my husband and I. Well my husband told him that we were gettting back together and that I was geting rid of my boyfriends baby. Yes I pregnant. After there confrontation my husband then feels as if he should contact my boyfriend and ask him somethings about me. Well my husband thought he was texting my bf but he was really textin me. The texts goes "yeah nigga I need to talk to you about my trife ass wife. Yeah I never stop hittin that. Did she swallow you too? He totally embarrass me. He claims he did it to see if the guy knew everyhing, but my husband also lied. I felt as if he was tring to bash me and make sure this guy didnt want me. My husband walk out on me. I didnt leave him and I supported him and his son for three years while he was unemployed. His child and him treated me with disrespect. Now he wants me back and he want me to kill my unborn child to do it. I guess my question is, How can he claim to love me and he belittle to another guy. Dear aunts what do you think.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 April 2010):

Honeypie agony auntFinalize your divorce. Shouldn't be too hard. After that cut all contact with him. He's a loser. TOTAL loser!

You new guy needs to trust you and quit talking to your ex. Nothing good can come from that.

Who CARES what your soon-to-be ex wants? WHAT do YOU want? Keep being married to a man who treats you like CRAP or divorce his sorry ass and move on?

*hugs*

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI think there are three people who need to step back and realize exactly how messed up they are. You can't possibly be thinking straight to be with either of these losers. You aren't in high school any longer and for crying out loud you have a child to consider. Time to grow up and try to make a life for you and your child.

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A female reader, It's all be okay United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2010):

They both sound dreadful.

Make sure you are divorced, not just separated, and keep away from your ex husband.

Also, the new man sounds just as bad - what kind of person phones an ex husband?

I would have an abortion, and dump both of them, and get on with your own life by yourself for a while.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntI don't have time for knuckleheads, so I would have no time for your husband.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2010):

I'm begging you, BEGGING YOU not to go back to your total ass of a husband. Don't do anything he says. Just don't go back or do as he says. EVER AGAIN. Please!

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