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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Over a week ago I found my (ex) girlfriend on dating sites. It`s not the first time by a long way. Sometimes she lied about it, other times she blamed me for neglecting her, which I dispute and she would never explain why. In fact, it broke up our engagement, and I found it got hard to believe anything she told me again.To cut a very long story short - tonight for the first time, I decided to have a night out with male friends, something I have never done since getting with her.Out of the blue I get a text saying to change my plans and take her out instead, otherwise she has a guy to meet tonight, to help her get over me. I don`t know who told her I was going out.What should I do for the best?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2015): You have not let go yet, but you need to.
You go back to her, have a good night out, go home, sex will be truly amazing, get back together because you have both learned from your mistakes, you catch her on a dating site again. Repeat.
To be honest I would block her.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (14 June 2015):
 Tell her to have a nice time on her date and wish her all the best for the future.
Then block and delete her.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (13 June 2015):
 If she is your ex... BLOCK her number and let her do her thing, while YOU do your thing.
SCREW what she wants! She is an ex for a reason.
And I agree someone is giving her some inside info, trying to manipulate YOUR life. Don't let her.
Tell her to go out with that other dude if she wants. Her life, her choice.
YOUR life and YOUR choices.
STOP letting her jerk you around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2015): She's getting to one of your mates, and he's ratting you out.
The fact you're even concerned; means you still have a soft spot for her, and she knows how to get to you. You should cutoff all contact, delete her messages...better yet.. block them, and grow a pair. She doesn't hold a remote control that makes you do things you don't want to do. She's got you whipped, and still pulling your strings.
Ignore her. She'll shrivel-up and go away. Telling you she's with another guy only shows how mean she is, and how manipulative she can be.
You want to feel free? Man-up, ignore her, and move on! She's already been with other guys by now. That's not your fault. It's because she wants to.
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