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She's dating other guys a week after telling me she loved me! Advice?

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Question - (26 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi Wonder if you can help

My ex fiance asked me to get back with her on a date to date basis at the beginning of November. We met up and ended up spending the night together. We agreed to meet each other the folowing week. However, I was drunk the following Saturday and text her feeling sorry for myself while drunk. I asked her id she still wanted to see me or wouls all her nights out since our last date cloud her judgement (she like to go out a lot with her friends and I was feeling insecure after having been dumped by her)

The following day, she ended it again saying that we light have a future if I sort out my insecurities. When I pushed her for a time period, a week, month, 6 months, she eventually said "this is too annoying and painful" and terminated the call. She then text me 5 days later asking me to email her some of her photo's.

Prior to this, when we were still together she asked me to give her my email account and password so that her child could get his game credits. I agreed, however when she ended the relationship I reclaimed my email address and changed the passwork as it had my full name (unbeknown to her). A week later, while checking my emails I discovered an email from a dating website which she had joined with possible dating matches. I was devastated and could not understand how she was ready to move on so soon after apparently wanting to try again. In fact, just over a week before joining this site she had told me she loved me. I am at a total loss, can anyone clear this issue up or give me some pointers into what her thoughts might actually be?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

wow that was really confusing, but i get the point. Maybe you should just give it a long break see other people as well. Because it seems that you are somewhat confused. and it seems she doesnt really love you as much as you think.

Try to move forward, and maybe you will find someone whos better for you.

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