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*igboi
writes:my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Let her parents deal with her suicide attempts and threats. It's out of your hands now, I suggest you give her a little space. Hopefully, her parents get her the psychological help she needs.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You cant stay with someone in a relationship over fear that they will kill themselves, she needs help and you are not able to give her the help that she needs she needs professional phycological help.
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reader, bigboi +, writes (16 November 2010):
bigboi is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have seen the cuts on her arms. i love her and she has been telling me the truth sicen i have found out n told her to stop lieing to me and she has but if i find out she is lieing then i have told her that it is over but what if she dose kill herself? then it will be in my life forever and i dono if i could be able to deal with that , i have told her father and step mum about the cuts but i do not know wat they have said to her. she also told me that the reason is that i would not let her have her own space this is cuz i was on her facebook i love her and willing to give it another go but i will end it as soo as i hear anything even if it is a lie i will not get with her untill i find out the truth.
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reader, bigboi +, writes (16 November 2010):
bigboi is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have seen the cuts and i have spoke to the boi when i asked him him he did not awnser me and wen he did it was a fuck off she hasnt lied to me sicne and told me everthing i love her and i think she love me but to be hounset i want end it but could not deal with her killing her self
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 November 2010):
she told you she cut her wrists but did you see the cuts to prove that she is telling you the truth? if there is no cuts then she is cying out for your attention and is walking all over you, if there is cuts there, then go straight to her parents and tell them she needs physocological help, this doesnt mean that she loves you, in fact i would say you are letter her walk all over you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): There's no way she could've been forced into that, and I don't think you should break up with her for doing it BUT for lying to you. Because, there's no reason she had to lie, she could've told you right away if it really didn't mean anything. Lying is something I wouldn't take in a relationship and that's the reason you should break it off. As for cutting herself, get her some help-fast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): Cutting her wrists is a ploy so you stay with her.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 November 2010):
This isn't Romeo and Juliet, honey. If she's cutting her wrists, that's very serious meaning she's contemplating suicide..in which you need to tell her parents immediately.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 November 2010):
Err, no. Her cutting her wrists proves that she needs psychological help. In no way at all does it prove she loves you.
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reader, bigboi +, writes (10 November 2010):
bigboi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe must love me tho as wen she told me she cut her wrists
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
If this is truly the case then you need to tell her, she needs to get down to the police station right to report a rape. However, if she obliges then that tells me she was more than willing to give that other guy a blow job.
She refuses to report this alleged rape then end it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 November 2010):
End it. If she had truly been forced, she could have gone to the police. She was not forced. She chose to do it of her own free will. Don't by her lies, my friend. A girl like this is not worth your time. She's just a lying cheat, and she's trying to make a fool of you.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 November 2010):
I'm sorry but no matter how much pressure you are put under you still have your free will and your own mind to say no and not give someone oral sex, she has highly disrespected you here and also doesnt really care much about her reputation either, am sorry but no matter what excuses she gives you she lied and i think that you should finish it with her because she has showing you now what she is capible of doing and who is to say she wont do it again, get out now while you can.
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