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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me last week because I kept giving her a hard time about her guy friends, they openly flirt with her and she spends more time texting them when shes with me and does not seem to speak to me. She wants to see me Friday and although I am upset and obviously want her back (which might have more to do with being lonely)I actually am not sure if it would be the best thing to do. She sees no problem talking to guys and being flirty as she says she is with me and they know it will not get anywhere and I know quite a few people think this so am I being too over possesive and jealous or is it disrespectful?. I personally don't have many female friends and don't flirt with the ones I am friends with but we are not all the same. The thing is I feel a lot to blame because I have realised after this short time apart that I live my life way too much around her instead of doing my own thing I seem to wait for her all the time and just want be glued to her, I actually realise that my insercurities could be more to blame than anything else which obviously is not a good thing, this past week I have been swimming seen friends which I have not done for the last 3 years. I obviously am in the wrong so do you think if I start being my own person things could get better? Any help is appreciated :) I am 23 my girlfriend is 20 but is immature and admits it
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 September 2012):
 I'm a huge flirt.
I asked my fiance once how he felt about my flirting... and his comment was very telling "you breathe you flirt"
he knows I flirt, I do it in front of him....
I know he looks at younger pretty girls and he does it in front of me.
in the end we go home with each other and sleep in OUR bed...
IF you do not think you can cope with a flirty girl friend, then you need to end it with her.
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