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writes:i need serious answers.Married or single women - if you could sleep with any hot celebrity you wanted to and there was no way in the world you could get caught would you cheat on your husband or boyfriend?Serious answers only please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): OMG, George Clooney is writing in on dearcupid!!!! ;)
Sorry, George, you're not my type.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): OK, serious answer. I really don't know. It would depend on a whole pile of factors. If I had a serious crush on celebrity, my relatioship would need to be in trouble or at least unsatisfactory, The celebrity would have to guarantee that no one would ever know, my partner would need to be understanding about my obsession, the celebrity would probably have to fall in love with me, and his desire for me would need to be plain, he would have to take me far away and romance me all night...
Oh showers, the list of conditions, factors and other considerations just go on and on... Do you know at the end all this thinking, I still don't know. I'm not sure what I would do.
Why are you torturing yourself this way anyway. You present as aged 51-59 (overage) and currently living in the USA. If you want to know if your wife would cheat on you for real with a celebrity, I suggest you find someone famous that she has an crush on, introduce him to her and then see how they behave. There is no way to know what your wife will do, untill that day comes along. Now why don't you stop all this stuff, go and find your wife and give her some loving and kisses for being with you all these years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Nah, a celebrity is just another man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): i can say yes i would do it now cause i am single and don't know what true love feels like, so maybe if i knew what it felt like to be with the man of my dreams perhaps i would say no
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Even if I wouldn't get caught, I would tell my man nonetheless. Hell YEAH I would have a fun night with Johnny Depp. Would I date Johnny Depp? No, I adore my boyfriend. He's my soulmate. Johnny Depp is just this foxy celebrity.
I wouldn't hide it, it wouldn't shame me with my boyfriend. Because I know that if J.Lo showed up, he would do her in an instant. (What the hell, I'd probably do her too). And to me, it's ALL GRAVY. We love each other!
Of course, if you had asked the ladies if they would do GEORGE CLOONEY, I'll bet you would've gotten a lot more yes's!!!
Really, what is the use of worrying so much about this, man? Your wife has a fantasy (don't we all!??!?). She knows that there is a 99.9999999% of it NEVER EVER HAPPENING. You should know that too.
xx India
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (14 July 2008):
 I'm not going claim to be a celebraty I wont lie to you, however, my friend is a famous comic artist and toy maker, he also works on Kanye's line Pastel.
I was invited to go on the tour bus for a month during the tour. Which I accompanied them for a total of a week before leaving.
A famous rapper, name disclosed, came on to me and honestly it was the reason I left.
My boyfriend was worried i would end up sleeping with some guy that had lots of money, and honestly I wouldn't want someone other than my bf.
I want someone that cares, someone i know isn't looking for a cheat bang, im going to have to say a small amount of woman would say
no way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): My boyfriend and i have actually talked about this a few times because he has huge crush on Asley DiParlo, a Pittsburgh new anchor, and I am abnormally obsessed with Billy Idol. We both decided that if the chance ever came about we'd cheat with those people only, and vowed to never speak about it. Although I know full well that I'll never even meet Billy Idol, I sleep with if I had the chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I not sure what about the celebrity part of the question. Cheating is cheating. If you cheat with a celebrity, you have a great chance of more people finding out about it. That's the only difference.
I not sure how anyone can take this question serious.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Is this a question like on "Friends" where you have a list of five people that either you or your spouse can be with if the remote chance of a sexual liason did present itself? I'm sure the whole idea is just a coffee table game that people play for fun, not an idea that they would actually entertain going through with if they could sleep with a celebrity. I know for a fact that my husband and I wouldn't sleep with Sigourney Weaver or Robert Deniro, even if they begged, but hey, a girl can dream! (I'll have to work the begging aspect in...)
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (14 July 2008):
HmMmMMMmmm.......NaaaaaaaaH I dont think I would go for it although it might be tempting but I love my husband and I wouldnt want him to be doing the same thing..and i also feel that too good for any celebrity..why would i want him? just because he is a celebrity so what :P he still has the human odours:P .. ill pass on the celebrity
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Nope. But I sure might tease my husband about it if he were getting too cocky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I would. In a heartbeat. Im in LOVE with a lead singer of a band. Ive met him several times and I go to all his shows when he is in town. If I could have one night with him I would. I wouldnt hide it but my bf knows that. He gets mad about it to but to me its a dream because I know it would NEVER happen. What us women arent allowed to dream lord knows you men day dream all day but does that mean you would actually act apon it. More in likely...No
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Seriously: whether another woman would cheat on her husband, or not, is no indication about what your wife would do.
You need to do the thinking about why your wife saying that touched that raw a nerve. Is there more to the story? That only you can know or analyze.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): You're still on about this?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-told-me-she-would-cheat-on.html
Let me ask you this: if you could sleep with any porn star you wanted to and there was no way in the world you could get caught would you cheat on your wife or girlfriend?
Why are you so bothered about your partner fantasizing over celebrities? How is that any different from when you fantasize about porn, or that hot woman you saw on the street the other day, or that friend of your partner's? Or do you never, ever fantasize, ogle, leer at, flirt with, have sexual thoughts about anyone but your partner? Unless the answer to my last question is "No. Never have, never will" you are one heck of a hypocrite.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 July 2008):
 You are really hung up with this whole George Clooney comment from your wife aren't you? Rest assured that if George Clooney actually did proposition your wife I'll bet dimes for donuts that she would tell him to jump in the lake. You are sweating over nothing here Buddy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): Not if I was inlove, no way. Furthermore, its not like celebrities are any more special than non celebrities. I've met alot of celebrities (since I used to live in nyc) and they are not any more special than non celebrities, really. Most are not even as good looking in person as in the movies, (with the exception of Leonardo Dicaprio) ;) He actually really is even more gorgeous in person, I think. But honestly, they have got just as much issues and problems as the average person.
And furthermore, why risk a good relationship just to say you slept with someone famous? I don't really see that as a great feat. In fact, I think its kind of trashy. Now if you were actually dating a celebrity because you both were inlove, then that would be different.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 July 2008):
 But I would tell him that this hot celebrity had made a pass at me, for sure.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 July 2008):
No, because I would feel good about myself if I did cheat. Fantasy is one thing, really doing it is entirely another thing. I just wouldn't be able to live with myself.
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reader, jess18maine +, writes (14 July 2008):
 This of corse depends on the women and the seriousness of the relationship that shes in when offered the sex with the celebirty... and you can't judge your lady on our anwsers....
If I were married and completely happee then I don't forsee myself wanting to cheat and jepodize my great relationship and if I did cheat I'd have to tell my man because I couldnt live with the guilt.
I'd jokingly say that I would but when it came down to it I deffinatly wouldn't.
If its a happee, strong, loving relationship then no one should have to worry about this and why worry about somthing thats never going to happen... unless the celebirty lives next door?
Being that I'm single... bring on the celebirtys!
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