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My Girlfriend told me she needed some space and after a few days she dumped me!

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Question - (23 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2011)
A male Philippines age 26-29, *yancoco writes:

i'm ryan, i really need some help..

im just gonna sketch my situation.

My girlfriend and i are been together for a while

My girlfriend asked me for some space and time and I am worried because she has not contacted me in almost a week. I'm so tempted to call her but my pride won't let me because she was the one who asked for space. What does a woman mean by saying, "I need some time and space" to her boyfriend? I want to believe she is genuine and sincere and just needs some time to think about things between us but from what I have seen in other relationships, in movies, and what I feel in my heart is that my relationship could be over; she probably used the "space" excuse to sneak out to "spare my feelings".

and one more thing I keep askin her why? but she won't tell me whats goin on. I told her that it hurts like hell. Then she told me this. I'm letting you go. not because i want to, but because i think i'm just hurting you. SEE?? I JUST DON"T GET IT:((

Can someone, ANYONE help. I am an emotional wreck and I'm just looking for some understanding here. Can any of you offer some advice? it fuckin kills me

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt"I'm doing this for you" yeah right.

let her go, move on...

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A male reader, ryancoco Philippines +, writes (24 May 2011):

ryancoco is verified as being by the original poster of the question

she told me this. I'm letting you go. not because i want to, but because i think i'm just hurting you. after a few a days

maybe because i always ask her why she needed space and i told her that i'm emotional wreck. so she decided to let me go?

we only talk in facebook message 1 day 1 message

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (23 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntYep she wants to break up and she's trying not to hurt your feelings...

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