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writes: Have been going out with a lad on/off for the last three months. For the last week I've really busy and have been unable to return his msgs. Then yesterday he sent me this text here it is word for word "Deep heartfelt msg take1, sorry4annoying ya wit my array of msgs! Goin2hav2 stop texing ya cause I'm slowly going crazy. I thought that there was more than there actually was, stupid of me! Dunno did I do/say sumtin wrong or wast, newho just2let you no dat your the nicest bestest girl I've ever met your golden.Keep rocking (my name) x"I feel this is out of the blue!! What should i make of this text? is still an opening or has he finished it??
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reader, kat14  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 i think this guy wants another chance he's tried to make out he's finishes it to see ur reaction and to see if u will come running back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): Are you so emotionally inept that you can't even interpret that text? In fact, it doesn't even take any interpretation. You're the one who was too busy to text him - you know that but he doesn't. He's simply asking if he's done something wrong because he hasn't heard from you and he says he's slowly going crazy. He also says you're the 'bestest' 'nicest' girl he's met. Duh! He's hardly dumping you - he's just wondering if you've dumped him. I'd say though, given your inability to determine what's going on here, that you're not ready for the real complexities of a relationship if you can't even fathom a text like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): Ask yourself if you want to see him again? Then just phone the pratt and ask him what his message meant!!!
If you don't know what he means it is unlikely anyone else will..!
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reader, Thachorie +, writes (2 August 2006):
 Ask him!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (2 August 2006):
 I think he feels as though you are not wanting a relationship.
It seems like he sends you a lot of texts, yet does not receive too many replies or maybe the replies are short in content and emotion.
I feel that this guy loves you a lot, but feels the love may be all one way.
This is why he wants to stop texting, he feels like he is chasing a lost cause.
If I was you, I would surprise him with a lengthy text message detailing your exact feelings for him, or even call him and explain that you really love him.
best of luck
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reader, bonym +, writes (2 August 2006):
 I dont believe for one second that he has finished it, if anything it seems to me that he is a bit gutted that he has been texting you so much and you have not reciprocated his messages! I think you should explain exactly how you feel and you will know where to take the relationship from here. xXx
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (2 August 2006):
 He's broken up with you over text. That really sucks. Dont feel too bad, anyone who texts like that cant be more than a total asshole, I mean T9 does good grammar and spelling for crying out loud!!!
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reader, badbrit +, writes (2 August 2006):
I am confused by this question. With the small backround you gave and the content of the text, how could you see anything other than it is??
There is NOTHING to suggest he wants to finish, it is exactly as the text says
sorry4annoying ya wit my array of msgs! - Obviously means he thinks that you are not replying cos you are annoyed and that you are the one not interested and he is sorry for not letting go.
Goin2hav2 stop texing ya cause I'm slowly going crazy. - This means that he it is driving him crazy, texting you, hoping and no reply.
I thought that there was more than there actually was, stupid of me! - he is saying that he thought you were together and happy but now suspects that cos you are not replying, you do not feel for him what he feels for you.
Dunno did I do/say sumtin wrong or wast, - Asking what he did wrong cos he thinks that maybe he has screwed it up, when he didnt want to.
newho just2let you no dat your the nicest bestest girl I've ever met your golden.Keep rocking - He is making it clear how much you mean to him, and the last bit is trying to get you to react.
You obviously want to be with him, why else post this message. If that is right, the reaction he wants is simple, he wants you to turn around and say, "sorry, been busy, want you to, dont want things to end etc" he is looking for a reaction from you, one that makes him feel wanted, which he obviously isnt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): I know this may sound harsh but have you really been so busy 24/7 that you can't take even a few minutes just to let him know that you are thinking of him or just to let him know why you can't contact him? Why are you are unable to return his messages? Where do you live? The Himalayas? He clearly thinks you are amazing and wants more communication that you are currently offering him. It seems like he is more interested in you than you are in him. He is thinking you are not interested in him and possibly that you are playing games with him. I think you need to contact him and explain to him what has been going on and you both need to communicate what you want. If you stay together, he will expect more communication. If he has finished with you, then at least you have your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): It doesn't look like he has finished it to me.
I think he is more apologising for texting you, he feels he has annoyed you and by you not replying, he believes that you arn't interested in him any more.
He's asked you if he has done or said something wrong
Then he finished the text by saying how much he still likes you.
If you like him send him a text back explaining that you've just been really busy and he hasn't done any thing wrong. He is definately well in to you :P
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reader, Ask Mel +, writes (2 August 2006):
 Dear Miss Anonymous,
It appears from the text that as you were busy and unable to reply to his texts he thinks you were ignoring him and therefore giving him the idea that you are not interested. It is also obvious that he has some sort of feelings for you, the question is do you have feelings for him? If you do, give him a call and just explain the reason why you didn't answer his texts. He will more than likely be glad you called.
Although your relationship has been on and off for three months perhaps this is his way of trying to tell you he is interested in a relationship on a more stable basis. If this is what you want what have you got to lose? call him and remember the ball is in your court and you decide what is right for you.
I hope this helps and good luck.
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reader, ChrissyA +, writes (2 August 2006):
 You need to write him, or call him, back and let him not that you weren't looking to let him go.
You got busy and you're sorry.
He obviously thinks the world of you.
Just be straight with him.
Letting yourself get preoccupied could say something as well.
Hope this helps!!
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