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My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I'm only fourteen!

Q.   I am only 14 and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him! I realy love him but how many people stay with someone that they started dating when they were 10? What should I say?...

A.   13 August 2006: I got engaged at 15 and were still together, im 17 now. I think if its what you both really want then you'll wait till your both ready, dont rush into it coz everyones different just coz some people make doesnt mean you will. ... (read in full...)

Im really worried that my past lies will wind me up in trouble with my girl!!

Q.   Hi, I have been seeing my gf for over 6 months now. We love each other to bits and are really happy together. However in my first year of Collage (months before I met my current gf) a girl stayed over in my room. We didnt really do anything, ...

A.   9 August 2006: I think you should tell her everything without her interupting tell her that you need to get everything of your chest then just begin as you at an early stage in your relationship then you should be okay and she will reward the honesty.... (read in full...)

My pregnant girlfriend says she want's to be a single mum

Q.   i'm 17 and my gf is 15. she has just found out that she is pregnant. we did have safe sex but obviously not safe enough. we have been seeing each other for almost two years now and i'll admit that i love her very much. she says that she is going to ...

A.   6 August 2006: She is incredibly young to have a child and is probably very scared, although you think hse is your future she more than likely just doesnt want to get hurt, now that she has a reason for you to be together she may think that you will feel pressured ... (read in full...)

What do I do about my ex? What does she want?

Q.   My ex and I broke up in December. I moved about 6 hours away. I returned about 2 months ago and asked her if we could work it out and she said she was happy being single. I left her alone about it. We have been hanging out a lot lately. We go ...

A.   2 August 2006: She expects a romantic gesture and you to fall at her feet, girls want that they need to feel loved in order for them to do anything about it.... (read in full...)

Hes ignoring me for the 2nd time, should I just dump him ?

Q.   My boyfriend is messing me around and has been ignoring me for 4 days now people are saying I should give him another chance but my family are saying he's not worth it. I really like him but this is the second time he's done this to me.Should I dump ...

A.   2 August 2006: my boyfriend ignores me for days on end but then he always comes back and its like were very together again, i dunno give him another chance and if he does it again ask him whats going on, then if he does it once youve talked to him dump him!!!... (read in full...)

Not sure how to interpret his text, does he mean we are over ?

Q.   Have been going out with a lad on/off for the last three months. For the last week I've really busy and have been unable to return his msgs. Then yesterday he sent me this text here it is word for word "Deep heartfelt msg take1, sorry4annoying y...

A.   2 August 2006: Ask him!... (read in full...)

29 and pregnant... Should be thrilled, but I'm not sure I like my partner!

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 2 years we have had alot of ups and downs and my family don't like the fact that I am still with him. At the moment I own my own house and he lives with me, I have recently found out I'm 7 weeks pregnant, I should ...

A.   2 August 2006: WOAH wait a minute, i had the same problem but my boyfrineds freinds didnt like me an di didnt like them it resulted in us splitting up for about 3 months when he found out i was pregnant we got back together and he calmed dwn alot, you should never ... (read in full...)

Does this comment mean he doesnt want to get married again ? or did he feel on the spot ?

Q.   I was at a party on Friday night with my boyfriend when one of his friends said he reckoned I was going to be his future wife. His other friend agreed and said he could see us either being married within 2 years or at least engaged by then. My ...

A.   31 July 2006: Of course if he has said to you he wants to get married again he will but after one failed marrige give him a minute, he will still have doubts about marriage just let him take his time and before you know it wedding bells will chime, everyoines ... (read in full...)

We both live in Lousiana and not sure if its illegal for us to date ?

Q.   ok please dont judge,i have been seing this girl who is 16,i am 21, we have been seeing each other for the past two yrs,we have not had sex,she wants to wait till marriage and i respect that.her mom has decided that she is too young to be ...

A.   31 July 2006: Hiya if you want o have sex with her, she is of legal age so you can, no it is not illegal to date. ... (read in full...)

Should I go out with him, even if I don't yet know how I feel?

Q.   There's this guy I like. He's 17 and I'm 14. We have been good mates for a while. I fancied him first and later found out he liked me too. We started flirting and stuff. Then I didn't see him for a few weeks as he has work, and I started to wonder i...

A.   30 July 2006: WARNING: You are underage he isnt if you do go out wiht him it would be illegal for him to have sex with you, and this may put a strain accross the relationship becasue if he has been sexually active before he's likely to want to be again, this ... (read in full...)

Sexual problems with my girl at 15!!!

Q.   Ok so i been going out with this girl and it may hav eonly been for a short while i think we've liked each other for ages but her friend liking me stopped us going out. Im 15 and shes 14 and today i fingered her and she tossed me off. and i know ...

A.   30 July 2006: Sometimes it can take ages and sometimes it can take seonds it just depends on how nervous you are, you may have been nervous because you had met her parents that day or subconciously nervous. Theres nothing you can do to slow it down but try ... (read in full...)

I think I want to cut off contact with ex even though I'm still in "love" with her

Q.   Hi, exactly 2 months ago me and my girlfriend of 5 months split up. She said she "doesnt feel the same anymore, and we werent right together" we were both 19 by the way... Im still not over her to this day, and still think about her all the ti...

A.   30 July 2006: Hi i have been through this exact problem but the other way round. Usually ,as a female i know this, women are still in love with men and regret breaking up after they have done but then are too afraid to do anyhting about getting back together. I ... (read in full...)

Please tell me how to forgive a cad who has cheated on me three times

Q.   ive been with the father of my child for three years 3 days ago i found out he cheated on me with a girl who is under age he slept with her twice we were trying to deal with it and i asked him have you ever cheated on me before and he said no then ...

A.   30 July 2006: If you do forgive him you will always have it in the back of your mind, trust is a hard thing to replace if you personally belive he wont do it again then try to forget it but if i a man can cheat on his girlfriend while she is pregnant then i ... (read in full...)

Im having an affair with a younger guy for 3 months, not sure if he wants something more permanent ?

Q.   i'm having a affair with a guy slighty younger than me,neither of us are married but live with our partners,my relationship is on the rocks not to sure about his.only if he was happy at home whats he doing out with me.he's started asking me what i'm ...

A.   30 July 2006: He asks about your home life ask about his, i dont htink it is very fair on your partner if your relationship is on the rocks shouldnt you be trying to fix it not having an affair? If i were you id think about which of them you want ask your lover ... (read in full...)

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