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My online guy has been professing his love for me but I've found out he has a girlfriend!

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Question - (13 April 2018) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2018)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Basically I've been with a guy for 8 months and we're long distance (he's also from a different country than mine we just met in the summer) . It was his choice for us to stay together although we are far from each other and we always skype and keep each other updated on what's going on in our lives, and I always bring up the long distance part up and he assures me that he's okay with it and that he loves me no matter what. We're also supposed to meet in June. BUT last week I found out that he has a girlfriend from his own country and he's been with her even before we started dating. It shocked me and I actually feel bad about her more than myself. I've been ignoring his messages because I don't know how to confront him about it since Im 100% sure he is with her although i dont have solid evidence that i can show him. I dont want him to play the role of a victim in front of me so I need a way to just cut him off. Any suggestions?

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A female reader, Dionee' South Africa +, writes (15 April 2018):

Dionee' agony auntHe's an idiot. Block him and move on or as I say, "Ex him, next him and pretend you never met him."

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (14 April 2018):

Block him, change your number if you have to, and close your account. Reopen a new one.

Move on. If you don't delete or stop the messages; you'll tempt yourself to open and read them. You'll also be tempted to troll or stalk him online. You also have to stop yourself.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (14 April 2018):

N91 agony auntBlock him.

He’s online, he’s from a different country - It’s really not that hard.

He’s shown his true colours, so let him get on with his life.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (14 April 2018):

Honeypie agony auntJust block, delete and forget.

Not much else you can do.

There is no need to confront him, if you "fall of the Earth" (as far as contact) he knows....

If he does use another Skype account or name to contact you you tell him you want nothing to do with him and that he needs to stop contacting you. then block, delete and forget.

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