A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear All,I am getting divorced from my husband (our marriage was dead for a long time, this is only making it formal) and broke up with my boy friend of 3 years . I have been single for close to a year.Now there is this guy whom I met on facebook and we text each other quite frequently (around 50 texts a day).He has a girlfriend with whom he is having a crisis. His texts are very mushy,all kisses and hugs. He says that his girlfriend doesn't mind and that he has excess romantic energy. He doesn't call and we have not met each other. We live in different cities. His girlfriend is abroad and she is visiting next month.We share common interests: literature,cinema and want to collaborate in translating some of our favourite poems into our mother tongue and publish.I have told him to stop sending mushy texts,but he doesn't seem to notice.I feel as though I have a boyfriend because he keeps track of me throughout the day through texts and gets worried if I am not prompt in responding.I know I shouldn't be doing this and I am very scared of getting hurt as we are gettingg closer.What do you suggest?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I Would say leave him alone. He has a girlfriend. She knowing are you sure she does know that? Please leave other womens men alone . There is alot off fish in the sea!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
End it immediately. He's lying to you and using you. You deserve a good man in your life, not a lying cheat. He's not even your boyfriend and he's already having a controlling effect on you. End it now.
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