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writes:See at one point I didn't give my husband space when he wanted it and we fought a lot so he would take off for days then come home and we would be fine for a little while then he'd take off again and I lost my kids to the state and I'm fighting to get them back and he took off again and its been nine days and he hasn't seen his kids for two weeks and my oldest is asking for him and I don't know what to do. I was told by a lawyer he wanted to give up rights to the kids and I though that was sad I really did. I gave him 3hours a day for his space but I guess that wasn't good enough. So I'm heartbroken because I sent him 151 emails for the past 9 days. What should I do? I'm about to lose everything because of him.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (1 September 2012):
 Let him give up his "Rights" to his children... but that don't mean anything.. because he can never give up his "responsibilities"... kids cost money, get yourself a lawyer and ask them about your husband paying child support (and possible marital support)... He's got to help feed and clothes those kids until they are overage, he can't just walk away.... I'm not sure about american law, but I think the government will help you to track him down.
If you can't get him by email.. try a phone, or find out where his family and friends live, serve a warrant on his ass for missing child support... your lawyer should be giving you better advice, ask him/her how to get money out of the guy to help your kids survive.
151 emails in 9 days sounds obsessive and inefficient.. it's not getting you anywhere... you know where his lawyer is... send all your correspondence to the lawyer, he will know where your husband is.
Don't sign anything until you get a lawyer.... if your kids are in care, then you'll need to get them sorted before your husband tries to run off... GO AND GET A LAWYER
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2012): You arent making much sense. If he leaves his kids days at a time fine. Full custody to you. But what did you do to have the state take away your kids. They dont take them away without reason and there is a lot we dont know. If you sent me 151 emails over the course of 9 days i wouldnt respond to you either thats excessive. You arent losing everything for what he did. If you are a fit parent the state wont take your kids, they dont want more in the system. They took them away for a reason. Im sorry but this sounds fishy. I hope you can get done what you need to get done and get your kids back.
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