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writes:This question is for ladies only. I am new to the internet. I come from a culture where girls are not educated about sexuality. I never had any sexual encounter with a man before my wedding. A few months after my marriage,my husband left country to find a better job. Like most newly married couples, we had a lot of sex. I have a huge butt and my husband was so obsessed with it. He always kept checking out my butt at home. He made me wear skinny jeans and tight pants that showed off my butt. He loved to grab and caress my butt through the tight jeans/pants at every opportunity. He liked sniffing my butt while giving me oral from the back. He liked my breasts and feet too but not as much as my butt. Now i chat with him on the internet and he keeps asking me about my butt. He has never asked for anal though. Ladies, Is my husband's behavior normal? Do you think that your husband/boyfriend is obsessed with your butt too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2014): I have an obsession with my girlfriends butt so I know what its all about
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2014): I was shy of my bottom when younger and embarrassed when I realised that my boyfriend/ husband found it attractive and paid it a lot of attention.Then I found that I liked seeing and having a feel of his.So finding each others bottoms sexy is hardly unusual,and quite fun.Anal sex is another matter and is down to mutual consent and not a right.We tried it once out of curiosity and,frankly.found the actual act uncomfortable in our different ways.Nevertheless I find that during lovemaking when he fondles my bottom the IDEA that he may slip a finger in exciting,although in reality I would NOT enjoy it.With these provisos my advice is to enjoy the attention
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reader, person12345  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Sounds like he may have a butt fetish, but so long as it's not causing any problems, I don't think there's anything wrong. If he does anything that makes you uncomfortable, just let him know or redirect him to another body part.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Skinny jeans and tight pants....in Pakistan ?! Where's your salwar kameez ?....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLadies, Thanks for your replies. Seems like many men admire women's butt but mine is so much obsessed. He makes me talk dirty about my butt during foreplay. He likes to bury his face in my butt and sniffs, i find it so weird. He slaps and bite my booty. Sometimes he makes me sit on his face in my tight jeans and begs me to smother him. He asks me to put on a thong for bed. I wonder if he is alright?
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reader, shazz1991xoxo  +, writes (23 March 2012):
 Hi there don't worry its totally normal my ex boyfriend was the exact same honestly, it's just a guy thing, my new boyfriend (now my husband) is sooooo obsessed with my breasts he just adores them, he's the same when I speak with him over phone and net always asks about them lol xoco
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 March 2012):
I'm not seeing a problem. Sounds like a normal healthy guy who finds you extremely sexy. My bf has tripped and fallen just because I was wearing leggings and he was staring too hard.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (22 March 2012):
 I have a large ass as well. In my husband's culture, it's extremely common for big butts to be admired as a beauty trait, so in my case, yes. Totally normal.
He finds you sexually appealing, attractive, beautiful, sexy. This is a GOOD THING. You would hate life if your husband didn't think you were sexy!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 March 2012):
 No problem. He just has a thing for your backside. Maybe he has a good reason.
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reader, Deagan +, writes (22 March 2012):
 This is very normal, he's just not afraid to say that he's actually thinking.
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