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Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating?

Q.   Is a massage with an 'unintentional' happy ending cheating? I'm a married woman. Before I met my husband I did take some classes at a massage school. I never persued that as a career (my husband would never approve). However, I am very good at giv...

A.   23 March 2012: No it certainly wasn't cheating, maybe you should tell him before the other guy tells him? Is your husband an understanding person? just tell him in confidence but that he's not to say anything to the other guy as it could make things awkward ... (read in full...)

My husband has an obsession with my butt.

Q.   This question is for ladies only. I am new to the internet. I come from a culture where girls are not educated about sexuality. I never had any sexual encounter with a man before my wedding. A few months after my marriage,my husband left country to ...

A.   23 March 2012: Hi there don't worry its totally normal my ex boyfriend was the exact same honestly, it's just a guy thing, my new boyfriend (now my husband) is sooooo obsessed with my breasts he just adores them, he's the same when I speak with him over phone and ... (read in full...)

Dry humping and pregnancy?

Q.   Im curious is it possible for someone to fall pregnant from dry humping. At first I thought it wasnt possible until someone said it happened to them. The thing is my friend and i were making out and he was dry humping me in just our underwear and he ...

A.   23 March 2012: The chance of u being pregnant is next to nothing don't worry sperm has to travel quite far up so you will be fine, when me and my first partner dry humped when I was sixteen I was scared too but now I just laugh about how paranoid I was, but yea ... (read in full...)

Was I wrong in suggesting that my girlfriend should use botox? She just flipped when I said it

Q.   I know this will make me sound like not a nice person (to some), when in reality I like to think I am decent, and am pretty diplomatic. Thing is, my gf of 3 years is aging badly. I love her to distraction, and that love is more about her lovely...

A.   23 March 2012: Yea it was kinda rude, but I know that you just wanna love her emotionally and physically also, just explain you're sorry and make her feel beautiful because saying something like that could really shatter someone's confidence xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

I've been trying to initiate a break up with my insecure girlfriend but both times she's had a panic attack

Q.   I'm 17 and I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 and a half years now, and it was going mostly okay up until recently. Recently, I've not been feeling very happy, for several reasons. First of all, it feels like I'm completely separ...

A.   23 March 2012: Think long and carefully and make sure you really want to do this as there may be no going back, if u maybe want to try and make it work sit her down and explain to her that you love her more than anything and tell her to stop being so insecure ... (read in full...)

My ex has been telling people that I use her for sex!

Q.   Hello. I am feeling very guilty at the moment. I'm going to try and keep this short. I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, this was due to her being abusive towards me, she would hit me and emotionally treat me bad. I loved her very much and...

A.   23 March 2012: You need to stop having intercorse with her now, other people will start to think that u are using her and u will get a bit of a reputation (not a good one) which may affect you chance of future happiness with someone, xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

Is it weird to send him sexy pics of me after not having spoken in a long time?

Q.   I was dating a great guy but he moved away and he was really disappointed about the distance as it interferes with us continuing things. And we haven't spoken in 2 months. Last time I spoke to him, when he was already moved and settled, he sent me a ...

A.   23 March 2012: Yea I agree with kyle be careful, he might show other people, just make sure you can trust him first xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

What is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?

Q.   This might sound like a silly question and I know that every one is different, but what is the average length of time that a man lasts during sex?? I've been with this guy for about 5 months now and we just recently started having sex. He lasts ab...

A.   23 March 2012: Hi there don't worry its not you as you said yourself every one IS different mines lasts five mins lol but one of my exes lasted too long, do you know if he masturbates often or does he drink regularly, because alcohol usually makes men last a lot ... (read in full...)

It creeps me out that my boyfriend masturbates in bed, next to me!

Q.   I'm not prude to someone's need to self please, I'm not even jealous or against it... but my boyfriend has been masterbating while I'm sleeping. I wouldn't even know about it if I hadn't caught him at least a half a dozen times. (and by caught I ...

A.   23 March 2012: No if he is doing it regularly its not good at all, and doing it too much will definitely affect your sex life, you just have to explain to him how it makes you feel, if he is a decent person and cares about you he'll stop xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

My boss's fly is always open!!

Q.   My boss's fly is always open. I've been told that if it's a stranger, you shouldn't say anything because it would be...strange. But if you know the person, it's fine, isn't it? Well, I don't want to make him feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. O...

A.   23 March 2012: Hmm maybe just be friendly and look down and say excuse me but.... Lol xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

Does anyone else have trouble forgiving in a relationship?

Q.   Does anyone else find that whenever anyone does anything wrong they can't forgive them very easily? It's like whenever anyone's done anything wrong in a relationship I can't forgive them all I can do is keep moaning and going on about it. I am so ...

A.   22 March 2012: I don't really have advice for you sweety but can just say to you i am the exact same, i feel horrible about it aswell xoxo... (read in full...)

I feel insecure about my 34C breasts!

Q.   Hi this is gonna seem a really cliché question. I've always been really small like a size 6/8 and 5 2" so this is going to seem inevitable but I am really self conscious about the size of my boobs. On paper they should be fine ( 34C) but they look ...

A.   22 March 2012: i am a 34dd sometimes an e, trust be consider urself lucky im no longer comfortable in tops and look stupid in certain clothes lol xoxo... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I am still a virgin?

Q.   I'm 20, I've been together with my boyfriend who is 21 for 2 months now and we have done pretty much everything in bed except full sex. He told me at the beginning that he has only had sex with one person (his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 and ...

A.   21 March 2012: he'll be happy that u are and its good to tell him, just say u want it to be special and im sure he'll come up with the most romantic evening xoxo good luck... (read in full...)

How can women watch porn with their partners?

Q.   One thing that bugs me is how can women watch porn with their boyfriends/husbands? Aren't you bothered he's getting turned on by another woman, who he possibly thinks is hotter? The thought is horrible....

A.   21 March 2012: i watch porn with my partner but he uaually pays more attention to me remember porn is just fantasy and all of them are mostly fake xoxo... (read in full...)

Father of my baby will not give up pot and I don't want him around my baby!

Q.   Hi, im a 20yr expectant mother in college. I have a problem. The baby's father doesn't do anything to help me. He's addicted to smoking marijuana and drinking cold medicines mixed with soda. Yes, you can get addicted to marijuana and HE NEEDS HELP. ...

A.   21 March 2012: hi hunni give him a direct ultimatum and STICK with it tell him straight stop smoking and be with ur family or smoke and be alone, its called tough love but u really do need to think of yourself and ur baby,maybe try talking to his parents and ... (read in full...)

Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?

Q.   hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply...

A.   21 March 2012: no way these things never work out someone always gets a bit more jealous than the other, it could take time but it eventually happens in the end, save ur friendship before it's too late friendship is more important xoxo good luck ... (read in full...)

I only see my boyfriend once a week!

Q.   Hello all, I have been seeing my BF for over a year now, but am not seeing him enough, I have discussed this with him many times. but nothing changes. He calls me, and stuff, but we only see each other once a week sometimes twice, but not very oft...

A.   21 March 2012: hmm something doesn't seem right if he lives around the corner and u only see him onced a week? my ex lived around the corner and we saw each other every day even if just for a hug or a kiss for 5 mins then we spent time with our own friends, seeing ... (read in full...)

He went to the movies with a girl and lied to me about it...

Q.   First, I'm in love with my best friend. We have been close for about 2 years now, we're always together. But we also have sex together, although we aren't actually in a relationship. He knows that I have feelings though and we have had ...

A.   21 March 2012: hunni hes using you, forget about him i know its hard it took me 2 years to get over my love slowly its really hard, you think that you will never get over it but trust me you will, dont let him treat you like that just tell him straight where to go ... (read in full...)

Sex hurts..

Q.   I lost my virginity about a month ago. since then, i've had sex about 4 times. the problem is that i have pain during penetration. he can get it all the way in but he is not able to thrust because it hurts me. will this go away or is there something ...

A.   21 March 2012: hey hunni it will go away eventually dont worry i had sex about six times till it got easier, mind you it only got easier when i was really drunk and didn't feel the pain as much but seriously it will get better try and relax and take ur time xoxo ... (read in full...)

I love him, but is he using me?

Q.   I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought we were in love but he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship. A year later, he gets in touch. He asks for me back says he regrets everything that happened. We spent a night together, but I'm ...

A.   21 March 2012: I was in the same situation as you, he used to call me when he was lonely and i fell for it every time, it took me a while to realise what he was like it was hard but i got over it, if u really want to be with him try not sleeping together for a few ... (read in full...)

Why wont the guy I'm dating add me to facebook?

Q.   The guy im seeing wont add me on facebook. We've been dating 4 months and after our 3rd or 4th date I added him but he didnt accept. I got angry one night and took it up with him and he told me the reason he didnt accept is because it still said he ...

A.   21 March 2012: On one hand it sounds as if he's playing you i mean why not add ur current partner, on the other hand maybe he doesn't go on fb alot does he update his status regularly?? u need to ask him straight out xoxo... (read in full...)

Does sucking make the breast bigger?

Q.   does sucking increase the size of breast ...

A.   21 March 2012: No LOL but sucking alot can swell ur nipple for a little while xoxo... (read in full...)

I've avoided him because he stood next to a lady! was I wrong?

Q.   I'v been in a relationship with a guy. Sometimes i doubt his love for me but he proved me all wrong. We met sometime ago and we had great time chatting and eventually he kissed me for the long period of time. I was shock because it was my first i ...

A.   21 March 2012: No i think u were wrong, try and chill out, jealously is not healthy, he is obv gonns see lots of people they sre girls too in the world! it seems he likes you but try and not to become over posessive and smother him, he is allowed to speak to other ... (read in full...)

Will it work out with this guy I am dating or my ex?

Q.   So i have a few dilemmas.com Dilemma #1: I have been dating this guy, who lives 7 hours away, for about 4 months now. I feel so in love with him. He is my evrything and I want to be with him so bad. My problem is I also have a daughter with my ex so...

A.   21 March 2012: personally i think you are better off with number 1 it seems u really love him, as u stated urself u don't even wanna kiss ur ex, thats not a good sign, u should never stay with some1 for the kids sake its not healthy for either of yous xoxo... (read in full...)

Should I change my hair colour for him?

Q.   I am dating a new guy and his type is brunette with olive skin. I am blonde, which i dye. My natural color is dark brown. Should I go back to my natural color? He asked me to but acted like he was joking but i dont think he was. So stay blond or go ...

A.   21 March 2012: only change ur hair color if YOU want to, don't change for anyone be yourself xoxo... (read in full...)

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