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*arecooldude
writes:Hey friends..I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes..she went to a different town for studying and there she was having many male friends, and a boyfriend too (i came to know this from her friends)..she did every thing with him as told by her friends and i don't feel good coz am still a virgin..!we used to have sex chat on phone so from there i came to know that her boobs size are unequal and she tried to fool me saying once she was hit hard by someone on her boob so its bigger..I just simply imagine her ex must have been right handed/ he like sucking the larger boob..my gf is very fast forward type of girl (i felt by our chatting)how can i know whether she is virgin/not..except that hymen test..m 22 she's 22..plz help
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (25 May 2013):
 To the anonymous medical student: PLEASE keep your OPINIONS to yourself!!!!
I've been using that line ("If I suck or fondle them, they'll get bigger....") for neigh on 50 years now. IF any of my prospects should get wind of what you've postulated, (and, which I, too, happen to know is true..) my love life could take a serious nose-dive!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2013): It depends on what YOU want ultimately from any woman. If you want marriage then find a chaste woman like yourself. I personally believe that the 'bedded can't be wedded'. Marriage is too sacred & honorable an institution to be desecrated & disgraced by self seeking people. Her dishonor shouldn't be your burden to carry because really if she's not a virgin, that is what she is asking you to do. Let that be another man's burden to carry. A man of equal burdens as herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2013): I'm a medical student in the US. NO, sucking on breasts does not make them grow. Absolutely not possible. If it were possible, all married women would have very large breasts. Plastic surgeons would be out of business.
Hymens can be broken in childhood and during teenage years by taking part in activities such as running, biking, horseback riding, fingering the vaginal opening, using tampons, etc.
Please do not listen to your friends. Seek the advise of an expert if truly concerned.
It sounds like you already have no respect for this girl and very much doubt her. It would be in her best if you let her go so she may be free to find someone who truly loves her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2013): Totally agree with all other posts, but just wanted to add one thing since you clearly have an issue believing that this is not possible - if sucking on a woman's boob(s) made them bigger, why would women get breast implants?! They'd just get a man to suck them and they'd grow for free.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (23 May 2013):
You can't. What difference does it make???
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 May 2013):
 HUMAN bodies are not symmetrical. ALL women have one boob that is bigger than the other... in some it's noticeable in most it's not. In a few women it's so severe that surgery will be required. Perhaps she believes that the hit she received is what caused the unequal of her breasts
The friend that told you that breast play would cause one breast to be bigger than the other is a BOOB himself.
There is no "hymen test" for virginity as young girls often tear and lose their hymen from running or climbing or horseback riding or playing soccer. using tampons or masturbation can also cause a hymen to tear and shred. NONE of that is indicative of a woman not being a virgin. and to be honest if she said she's a virgin then she's either telling the truth or lying and that's on her.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (23 May 2013):
 Listen OP, first of all, you can never really "know" if a woman is a virgin or not and the "hymen test" as you put it is NOT a measure of virginity. If a woman does not bleed the first time that she has sex doesn't mean that she's not a virgin, the hymen can be broken by other means.
Secondly, unequal boobs are not caused by someone sucking on them!! Jeez!!
And if you are so taken in by the entire concept of virginity, then what are you doing having "sex chats" with her? That's not against your morals?
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reader, darecooldude +, writes (23 May 2013):
darecooldude is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for your answers but as i told you she is a fast forward type of girl.I did not even asked her any questions related to genitals she only started first, so i have to respond in a positive way..Actually someone told me that if someone presses hard or sucks boob frequently then it becomes bigger.Why did my GF tried to fool me that one boob is big coz it hit hard on someone.I guess she is not loyal to me.If you want any other specific informtion..let me know through your answers..
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (23 May 2013):
 Hi, you cannot know. If she is everything you say, why are you even with her? I understand that in an Indian community it is important to marry a virgin, but sometimes we need to decide if its everything?
Do you not love her enough to accept her that she is not a virgin. Also if she is lying, its because she knows you will not accept her.
Also why would you believe her friends over her? Who needs enemies when they have friends like your GF!
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