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Let's admit our faults and learn from our mistakes! A faster way to reaching a solution.

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Article - (29 December 2007) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female New Zealand age 30-35, truly_unique writes:

This is just a little note to all the readers out there reminding you that nobody is perfect. although sometimes our selective memories block out all the bad things we have done and we to us it can seem that we are always in the right. Sometimes we need to take a step back and look at the role we have played in our current dillemma. Its ok to admit that your not perfect and you made a mistake..however it seems a whole lot easier to blame someone else for our misfortunes rather than admiting to the world that we are just in fact human and not some perfect specimen.

Admit to your faults and learn from your mistakes. This will only help you grow as a person. Throwing blame around is a common cause for most arguements, however to admit your faults first and apologise for what you did wrong will be a faster way to reaching a solution.

And if Mr/Ms perfect-for-you has screwed up something small (she steals the remote/he burnt the dinner) just remember that NOBODY is perfect. Not them. NOt you. So cut them some slack, and you will find it easier to get along.

good luck for your future

xx

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