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My breasts are heavily bruised from his hands, biting, and sucking. Any worries for the future?

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Question - (20 February 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2010)
A female United States age 18-21, *oGreen126 writes:

Dear Aunties--

Thanks so much in advance for reading. I care very much for my boyfriend of several months. I thought I should start off saying that to clarify that this isn't a casual situation.

Whenever I let my boyfriend feel up my breasts, we get a bit carried away. I don't seem to have much differentiation between pain and pleasure. Afterwards, my breasts are heavily bruised from his hands, biting, and sucking. They can also be extremely sore.

It doesn't bother me, but I just wanted to check that this won't have permanent effects or anything? I just wanted to be sure--better safe than sorry... As it is shown over and over on this site.

Thanks!

--GG

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A female reader, Country Woman United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

Country Woman agony auntOK when I was with my ex and we were in the middle of lovemaking, he used to sometimes get a little bit too attentive on my breasts as it was something he loved to do and if a man is obsessed with breasts they do concentrate sometimes too much on them and not on creating other pleasurable things for you.

Kissing your body all over can be extremely arousing, kissing your neck or any other erogenous areas can also do the same, tell him that you need him to be a little bit more gentle as if he hurts them too much then it will take them time to heal and if you do have larger breasts then of course they are going to feel extremely sore, maybe try doing some massage on one another with oils etc and show him how gentle massage can be extremely arousing and you don't have to be all quick and fired up.

Imagine a love bite on the neck and then consider the same on the breast, they are two totally different areas and one of them is much more sensitive, ask him how he would feel if you did the same to his penis or balls, believe me he would soon react.

These areas are highly sensitive and precious so take care around them OK. You can still enjoy great lovemaking but just take your time with it all, it isn't a race, stamina can be much better than a quick race, believe me.

BFN

Country Woman

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A female reader, fishdish United States + , writes (21 February 2010):

fishdish agony auntWHAT, I don't think that a little rough play is going to necessitate a massectomy! where are the kinkies and s&m posters!

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A male reader, realman United States +, writes (21 February 2010):

I really think your boyfriend isn't a good responsible man. He's selfish . He didn't show his consideration at all. If you let him do that continuously. It will cause your breasts heavily effects. Your breasts even could be cut away if it's too serious. I'm sorry for it might cause your scare, but it's the truth. anyway, take a good care of you, your boyfriend can't be with you a whole life.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (21 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThe opinions posted here are not professional opinions. As such you should see a qualified and professional person for his opinions.

If you constantly abused your breast , you may get infections which can lead to other complications.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (21 February 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntYou and your boy friend are little ignorant about love making. Love making is an act of play with delicacy of flower.It should not be forceful act, that resulted in sore.If you want high voltage of sexual vibration,[should and must want, if not than why sex?] than deal it with extreme delicacy.

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A female reader, GoGreen126 United States +, writes (21 February 2010):

GoGreen126 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks so much for the advice!

I greatly apologize if it came off as though he's abusive. He's really not. He asked several times if it was too hard and I always said no because it felt good. He saw the bruises and felt absolutely terrible. He went so hard because of my thoroughly positive encouragement--both verbal and not.

My boyfriend treats me better than I could even imagine, and I'm sorry to have made it seem any different!

Thanks again!

--GG

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

Bruising is pretty needless, just ask him to be a bit more gentle. Im sure it wont affect you long term though.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

Sweetness listen to me as a mother here, he is abusing you sexually and physically. He is using your body for his pleasure. If he actually cared he would have shown more gentle demeanour in the bedroom. Talk to your mom immediately about this, dump him instantly and if he insists to get back report him to the police. People like him shall not be allowed to have a girlfriend. You are a young beautiful princess and this is not what you deserve. If I were your mom I would have smashed his face and called the cops to put him where he belongs, with a hope to drop the soap there so he knows what pain feels like, given that he loves giving pain that much. There he would be receiving.

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A female reader, fishdish United States + , writes (20 February 2010):

fishdish agony auntI think that it's about as permanent as getting a bruise on other parts of your body, shouldn't affect milk flow or anything like that in the future! you'll be fine

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

Nah I dont think this is dangerous, other than you're teaching him some bad habits of not being gentle.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

that happened to me like the first few times to at one point they were even bleeding and it hurt to wear a bra . just ask him to be a bit more gentle for a while . with me after about a month i got used to it and it doesnt hurt anymore at all and tehres no permanent damage. they just need to get used to it so ask him not to be so rough

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A female reader, cazz19 United States +, writes (20 February 2010):

You should be very careful my boyfriend does the same i worry it may cause problems in the future. You should tone it down just a bit so you don't damage those bad boys in the future.

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