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writes:I'm worried I'm loosing all my friends because of my boyfriends friends. They all fancy me and wont stop following me, I need some time with my girlfriends but thats never going to happen because they wont leave me alone - My friends dont like his friends. I talked to my mam about it but she doesnt like my boyfriend much and told me to break up with him so they cant go near me anymore, but i love my boyfriend and cant break up with him, what should i do!? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Too right Aunty BimBim.. I'm a bit confused as well..
If your spending all this time fighting off you boyfriends friends, who are all over you, so much that your girlfriends disapprove, doesn't your boyfriend notice, dosen't he get upset, or is he the non-jealous type.
Why do you boyfriends friends know where to find you all the time. Why can't you go over to a girlfriends house where they are not welcome or invited. Arrange more days out with your friends, and just don't tell your boyfriends friends where you are going. If this is really too much of a problem for you, I suggest you go and talk to your boyfriend and tell him you want his friends to back off. A decent boyfriend would see that his girlfriend is uncomfortable and want this situation sorted out.
Strange.. your boyfriend doesn't notice but all your girlfriends do.. mmmmmm.. I think you really need to have a long talk with him.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 I'm sorry, I am finding it difficult to accept your question, in has conjured up a mental image of a poor defenceless little girlie being kept from her friends by a living barrier of ravenous, red eyed, drooling boys.
C'mon now, ALL your boyfriends friends fancy you and follow you around all the time? And because they are there all the time you don't get to have girly girly time with your girlfriends?
I think your Mam is right, drop your boyfriend, stop having anything to do with these boys and enjoy the company of your girlfriends.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 For one, talk to your boyfriend about it, so he can keep his friends in check. Cause if they're really friends..they shouldn't be after you. And two, talk to his friends, tell them that they need to realize that you have a boyfriend; their friend; and that they need to back off and let you breathe.good luck
-a.e
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reader, Lîttlë FäLLën FrëäXx +, writes (20 February 2010):
If you break up with your boyfriend, his friends are most likely still going to follow you. This has happened to me before. Tell his friends to leave you alone because your friends don't like it, and if they don't, just ignore them all and go hang out with your friends. If they come up to you and your friends, walk away. If your boyfriend is with them and you ignore them, he might think that you don't want to go out anymore. Just tell him your ignoring his friend because you want some girl time, and he'll understand, and maybe even get his friends to leave you alone.
Hope this helps!!
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reader, emma xxx +, writes (20 February 2010):
 i know im 14 like but just tell his mates to stop followin ye and that ya taken so tell them to leave ya alone otherwise ull get them done for harrasment hope this advice works
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): Hang out with your real friends separately from your boyfriend, and hang out with him alone
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