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If anyone think I'm worth getting along, Please contact me by Skype. My Skype number is goodman89111. Free talk, gentle and graceful.

Finally committed, but nervous because he is leaving

Q.   Well here it goes. My boyfriend and I have been together for about four months now. I know that I love him. I am old enough and mature enough to understand what that means. He has become one of the people in the world I am closest to. He knows more ...

A.   13 August 2010: I have to say,it's really a tough problem you're facing. Long distance always makes lovers grow apart. Actually, I don't want to say this to you, but the rational part of my brain reminds me to tell you the rule, I think you know it too, so the key ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with trust and jealousy in this long distance relationship?

Q.   my boyfriend lives in another state. im being really irrational but i can never see him and im afraid he will forget me and or find someone else. sometimes he doesnt call for one or two days and there is a new girl on his facebook and its driving me ...

A.   26 February 2010: To be honest, I have to say long distance's relationship can't keep long. If you and your boyfriend can't work out the problem of the distance,I'm afraid you two will eventually trend to seperation. Please forgive my candor. That's the truth. it has ... (read in full...)

Are my rough tendencies in bed the same as abuse?

Q.   So, as you all are pretty much aware, I am against hitting women. However, I like to whip and spank women during sex, and I like sex to be as rough as possible. (consensual of course) Anyway, I know who I am and that I don't pose a danger t...

A.   26 February 2010: Frankly, I think your behaviors in bed are kinda abnormal. Don't say that it's consensual. If you have been used to this way in bed, I'm afraid you won't secure your partner's agreement when your libido comes. So , if you're still intelligent, you ... (read in full...)

When is it to much masterbation?

Q.   This probably a question asked quite a lot, but i cant find any other references to it on the site...my question is that i am a chronic masturbator, I also find it difficult recently to get a proper erection, and don't feel attracted to women, i ...

A.   26 February 2010: stop it, your libido will return. really, it works, don't worry.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to suffer injuries during sex with a large man?

Q.   What kind of internal injuries can be suffered during rough sex that lasts for hours? My new BF has a large penis and after our most recent encounters, I am still sore 2 days later. Internally and it burns when I pee. He used a condom and says he ...

A.   25 February 2010: I think the best way is telling him about your pain. let him be soft and gentle next time. Then you can make it. or else you will suffer it constantly ,not only once. ... (read in full...)

I told her the level of sex needed to increase, but it hasnt, should I dump her?

Q.   I told my girlfriend that I didn't want to have a relationship with her if there wouldn't be regular (somewhat frequent--at least once a week or so). She promised things would change, and they did for about a week, and now things are back to boring ...

A.   22 February 2010: I have to admit that I'm also in the same boat. I have been married for over ten years. But I'm always frustrated in sex. Over these years,I have sex once a month. As a normal man, I tried many times to explain sex's importance for people, My wife ... (read in full...)

I found disturbing porn on my boyfriends laptop.

Q.   I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22, we've been together for a year and a half. I was recently on my his laptop, I was looking at photos and I closed the folder and forgot where I found it. So I looked at recent items, and clicked on one of the photo names. ...

A.   22 February 2010: Frist, I have to say If I were you I would have the same say. But I want to say, take it easy, it's really a piece of cake. To watch porn pictures or movies is normal for an adult man. Of course , if a adult man involved in porn materious and caused ... (read in full...)

First time sex... I don't know whether I should do it or not.

Q.   Hi, my question is on first time sex and its not going to be easy to answer, but basically I was wondering whether I should do it or not. I know this must sound a little odd, but I was watching a Family Guy episode last night (don't knock it, it a...

A.   21 February 2010: As a man, from man's desire, maybe I should suggest that you can have sex with your boyfriend anytime. But as a father who has daughter, I strongly suggest donot do this now, you're after all too young. There are two reason I'll give you, one is ... (read in full...)

My breasts are heavily bruised from his hands, biting, and sucking. Any worries for the future?

Q.   Dear Aunties-- Thanks so much in advance for reading. I care very much for my boyfriend of several months. I thought I should start off saying that to clarify that this isn't a casual situation. Whenever I let my boyfriend feel up my breasts, we g...

A.   21 February 2010: I really think your boyfriend isn't a good responsible man. He's selfish . He didn't show his consideration at all. If you let him do that continuously. It will cause your breasts heavily effects. Your breasts even could be cut away if it's too ... (read in full...)

I want a boyfriend but guys only want me for sex!

Q.   everyone i meet say am really sweet, friendly and caring.. ive been single for 14 months and ive had 8 guys come my way and they ALL WANTED SEX:( and off course i didn't give in all these guys have disappeared..cos i want relationship +sex ...

A.   21 February 2010: Trust me frist. I can say not every boy you will meet is just like it. even it happened, it's not all, just few of them. don't lose your faith. to open your eyes bigger, you will find the best one for yourself. I look forward to your good message.... (read in full...)

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