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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybody,My boyfriend of 4 years has been nothing but wonderful to me,but things went upside down since last 4 months..My boyfriend's mother lives with us,the reason being she's really ill and needs supervision..but I think she doesn't like me.I try so hard but she just doesn't like me,and last night I over heard her telling my boyfriend how he'd be better off without me,and that I'm just beautiful on the outside but I have no inner beauty at all,and he'll get bored of the toy..I was in tears when I heard this,I make breakfast,lunch check on her diet,check her health,make her bed..and still??my boyfriend told her he loves me and that she shouldn't interefere in his life..I don't know why she doesn't like me,she doesn't give me a chance!what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 October 2012):
 You are young, beautiful, capable while she feels old, sick and useless. It's hard to appreciate you when she feels like a burden to your lives. You don't need her approval. Treat her as a fragile being. If you can keep up with taking care of her great. Tell her that this is who you are, your generous nature and that she doesn't owe you anything. If not, then at least try to be civil to her and refuse to start an argument with her, because you can't reason with a sick person.
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